A chance for relationship

[Mayorka]

hello, my first question didn't receive any answer but I will share one more cast in case somebody could help me.
So my question was if there is any chance of relationship in this year: 22/1/4 changing to 56
I believe the answer shows a picture of somebody that comes into my life and perhaps will be a traveler (and nothing more) or a temporary relationship. I would appreciate any help.

 

[SebastianS]

There are - as always - numerous ways to interpret it, I would read it like that:
Chances are mostly dependent on the things you're doing. If you just spend your time alone in your apartment, binge-watching shows on Netflix, the only person you might intimately get to know is Jessica Jones (or Raymond Reddington). Duh. So this is what the 1st line is going to refer to: You need to show up, don't lock yourself in. (A carriage, or a car, to put it in a modern way, is going to isolate you from your surroundings - don't do this, be on the open ground, online and offline, on dating sites and in your real life community - let yourself be found). Line 4 speaks of essence vs. appearance - don't judge potential matches from their good lookings, but get to know their intentions. You don't want the bandit (one night stands, polyamory, etc.- you should be very selective) but the marriage (permanent relationship), so if you're upfront with what you want and choose people who are into the same, there will be no discontent at the end, this makes chances higher to get what you want.
Basically, I think you got a wonderful answer that is a blueprint for how to find your match. Being active and upfront with what you're looking for in a partner. Personally, I would see 56 more as something like an "overview" of your situation - you're the wanderer looking for a destination, and the changing lines are mirroring how you could increase your chances of finding your match.

 

[Mayorka]

That's right there are numerous interpretations in IChing and mostly through experience you learn to interpret. I study Iching for years and it never stops to surprise me!
Actually, I believe that line 1 shows someone who doesn't go far...She leaves the carriage and walks. You can't go far on foot...
I have clearly see line 4 plays out as a very attractive man who shows up. However, my experience has taught me that I can't trust the appearance of any person!
And yes... this is what I wish in my life to find a man to have a family with! I am not interested in temporary relationships in my age but I guess I can't have what I want whenever I want.
Perhaps the next man in my life will be a foreigner, a traveler, a wanderer.

As about a stable relationship that I am looking for...my own family. I asked and I received:
Hexagram 25 lines 3&4 changing to hexagram 37.
I believe that this is a very auspicious cast in relation to my question.
In first line we have again the wanderer who steals the cow (like when you 'steal' a partner from her parents), he persists and all concludes to a family. This is a very clear answer to me.