A great Traverses + marriage

[debono]

Hi..!!!

i have been helped here before in these forums...so when i found myself in a predicament i thought of posting my Iching reading here...

I came in contact with this girl a month or two back...we discussed occults and stuff...she was in a rough relationship streak.. and i was dumbstruck by how wise she seemed and yet have been behaving kiddish and in a pattern of self destruction..

recently we have gotten close, sort of an innocent infatuation ...but we live in almost opposite ends of the country... and i didn't know if we would be able to marry... huge family differences and stuff...

She's more inwards, and i havent gotten much nourishment through her... but i don't want to throw away everything just yet..

my own relationship sphere hasn't been the ideal one so far, there has been much loneliness and she's someone who i can talk to and be understood on some level...my high IQ around 15o makes it impossible for me to be stimulated by dumb girls..

so i asked IChing oracle to give me the image of the situation and i got

28 Great Traverses....

the ridgepole twists and sags under the strain.
Advantageous to have a direction to go. Harvesting
Make an offering and you will Succeed.

 

[willowfox]

Well, the situation that you find yourself in is facing a crisis point and some action needs to be taken immediately to rectify the imbalance. Are you being too eager with this relationship, are you trying to go places with it when you are plainly not in a position to do so. Perhaps you are being too obsessive about this girl, so you need a reality check to really see what is going on, you must learn to be patient. Therefore, slow down, change your priorities here, and stop being obsessive.

 

[debono]

not the first time...

i have had two day affairs many times in my life...

but an angel sitting on my shoulder keep telling me about where it is taking me...

and i know i am in a crisis... but i am certainly not obsessed...she seems more obsessed to be honest

the only problem i might have is i cant say know when even it's hurting my priorities...i just cant say no to someone i like