About a man and a woman.

[bettoula]

Hello friends,
Once again I find myself seeking help from anyone willing to give me their own insightful and objective opinion. As you may know, sometimes it is hard to be objective about something that concerns us so closely and in which we are so invlolved so...
I am in love with someone different from me in many ways, less 'sophisticated' than me, sone would say. We have been livng a lovely story but I feel something went suddenly a bit off track. So I decided to have a chat with him (he is not a very easy person to talk to, sort of secretive but this is also one of the things I like him for). The result was I asked him to take some time and think about what he/we really want from our story. I do indeed need time also, but I also don't want this thing to end. I am confused really, because I want clarity but yet I feel I am confusing things even more. Here is where the Sage comes in: I asked which direction our love story will take after this 'check point' and I got 40 turning to 19.
I would be so very grateful for some help and ideas from you.
Thank you and God bless.
Betta

 

[Frankelmick]

Betta,

Just some thoughts.

Maybe what happened between you is not your fault? Perhaps you shouldn't spend too much time thinking about it?

How about giving yourselves some time and then, hopefully, things will sort themselves out.

Best wishes,

Mick

 

[stuart]

The lines may be refering to becomming dependant on something.line 4 on line 1.However it is not an ideal situation; in the sense that there is some form of interfierence from another source.It is a difficult reading configeration because the lines are a good match.Maybe if you release yourself from people who interfier then you can both progress towards good fortune.A late marriage for yourself is indicated!.

 

[dobro p]

40.1.4 - pretty nice.

40.1 talks about being without fault in this issue.

40.4 talks about release, movement, friends arriving and truth being captured.

Looking at the individual lines, it would seem that the situation is fine, although there's the indication of friendship rather than romance.

But looking at 40>19, that portrays release leaning toward the approach of something great making itself known. Again, nothing overtly romantic, but really positive. This talks about getting beyond difficulty and tension and about the approach and arrival of something really good.

 

[bettoula]

Thank you so very much, it is helping indeed!

 

[dobro p]

Bettoula, your name is really similar to 'birch'. Is there a connection?

 

[bettoula]

Well, actually no. But I thought of that myself, what could having a name similar to birch mean?

 

[dobro p]

The traditional associations and mythology surrounding the birch are very interesting. Check it out.