About her, 12.1.5.6>51

[gti112]

Ok, ok I know I'm being unique here; I as well ask for a relationship matter
We meet with a girl for the past 2 summers and rarely, maybe twice the rest of the year in my hometown (she's away for studying the other time). The situation is on and off and on again, since we are both in and out of relationships with other people, but the thing is we really click together and we both know. I start sounding like a stalker now but things turned a bit ugly last time I saw here due to my teasing on an inappropriate level, --bad timing mates and ladies--
Now regarding that end, but mainly focusing on my general attitude, I asked lately what should I do with her.
The oracle answered plainly: 12.1.5.6>51.
But I don't get it to the point, can you please help me with that?

 

[rosada]

12.1 Withdraw,
12.5 Very cautiously consider how to approach her again.
12.6 After a period of standstill it is highly likely you can reactivate your friendship.

51. As you only get to see each other now and then, you should set yourselves in order and consider what you are wanting to create here.

rosada

 

[gti112]

Thank you rosada for your time to answer my question.

 

[willowfox]

I asked lately what should I do with her. 12.1.5.6>51.

What should you do is simple, stick with her, apology for your inappropriate remarks and then you will see her react accordingly, she will again warm to you but it is down to you to fix the mistake that you made, then things will go well once again. So, I would suggest that you quickly get your apology across to her as the longer you wait the more angry and set she will become.

Look at Hex 51, set your affair with her back in order then you will have reason to smile.

 

[gti112]

Man, willowfox you 're right again. That's what I 'm planning to do, when she answers my calls of course. But I do believe she can be forgiving if there is a reason. Thank you for replying my question.

 

[goddessliss]

Did she ever answer your calls............

 

[gti112]

Yes she did answer.
About a week or 2 maximum, after my last post she happened to be in my town for the weekend. I had bought a present for her, for her nameday that is. She was distant and didn't want to accept it, but finally did so. I said I was sorry for my previous behavior and that was a more meaningful way to me to express it. It was awkward, she barely said a thing, and then we said goodbye, she said she had to leave early the following morning.
Confused and dissapointed I left the situation as it was.
6 months later, the following April, I contacted her again when I happened to be at her city. She said she was ill. I told her to get well and we could meet sometime when she would be ok.
Half an hour later she calls me to tell me she would like to meet me that evening. I asked her if she's feeling better and she said she would be ok. Finally we set to meet at 9 o'clock that evening.
She comes at 10 barely talks, seems arrogant and after 40 minutes tells me she wants to leave because she doesn't feel that well and her Boyfriend nags her all the time. I say "ok (what a wuss!) I'll escort you to the cab", she tells me "I can handle it myself", and I say again "I will feel better if I escort you till the cab" . I escort her and say goodbye to any chance meeting her again after that kind of behavior.
The following October (yes again after 6 months) she arrives at my home with her best friend on account of a casual meeting I had prepared with some people, she wasn't invited however her friend was.
I was astounded to see her, I only said "You 're the last person I expected to see here" She said "Why so?"
Then we said goodbye and now its over.
Some things are better not complicated and still if you like complicated situations go after it.
I just want to say that in the game of love, there is only one win-win solution and that is being together.

 

[Trojina]

Interesting....that girl sounds truly confused and it all sounds like far too much trouble....so I wonder how the reading applied.

I have noted before 12.6 really does not promise as much as people think. Very often the situation does deteriorate further even if effort is made. I don't really understand that....unless we kind of just miss noticing when the standstill ends


I feel the fact that lines 1 and 6 were moving kind of wrapped this up...an episode

but 12 'wrapped' up 51


Hmmm I wonder what it says as a sentence

'blocked thunder' ? 'thunder blocked' 'thunder standstill' ? sounds uncomfortable whichever way

 

[gti112]

Trojan what's your position on 5.6?

 

[Trojina]

Nothing that departs much from the usual interpretation which as I understand it is that whilst you are waiting for what is needed you need to keep a space open for it to come in unusual unlooked for ways...So rather than determining how you expect help to come keep an open mind...an idea or a person or an opportunity may come in a way that you might least expect to even have any bearing on the need or problem in question

Some people have had very concrete expereince of these 3 unexpected guests that you need to honour. I don't think I ever have...it seems more like the problem is somehow resolved without one quite knowing how...it can be one simply follows a hunch or entertains new ideas

I guess one entertains idea or opportunities the way one might entertain some unexpected guests...you never know what they might bring

 

[gti112]

Thank you for your input Trojan. I will keep that in mind.

 

[Colours]

Some things are better not complicated and still if you like complicated situations go after it.
I just want to say that in the game of love, there is only one win-win solution and that is being together.

I followed your story with very much interest.
It really sounds familiar, as it recalls my own.
Long-distance relationships are imho very much related to the fear of loss. So hex 12 would be, in this case, about overcoming that fear, because when you view someone through the lens of uncertainty and doubt you don't quite see them as real people: they're just a projection of your inner ghost. Taming that ghost is also the challenge, the fun and the struggle of hex 51, which is all about the fear of loss in fact.
So in my opinion hex 12 was telling you to look within to cut that fearful bond with her (12.1) and then to plan inspired and divine action (12.5) in order to overturn the blockage (12.6). So at the end of the day It's all about overcoming the fear of loss within yourself; and you do that by mastering a 51 type of scenario.
The point is... inspired action needs to be taken, not any kind of action. Maybe you didn't let the teachings sink in before you reconnected with her. Maybe she wasn't ready. Maybe neither of you was. However, the kind of tango that you picture is about two people who are freaking scared to lose their grip on each other, and so they call it an end before they begin.
Thanks for sharing your story.
Many many well wishes <3