Advice regarding a divorce Hex 28.2.6 to 33

[veronica]

Hello guys,

I would be most grateful for your advice again. My husband and I are getting divorced, I am keen to keep things simple, to sell the marital home and split everything equally, he doesn’t want to sell the house but is not able to buy me out. He is implying that the house should be kept for our daughter but I cannot afford to do that because the house is the only equity I have and I am 53, I also have a son from a previous relationship and I need to provide a home for both my children. My husband seems to be playing delaying tactics and not making any efforts to resolve things, which might end up in court if we cannot agree.

Tonight I asked: What is the best way to deal with B? (To be able to reach an agreement and to be able to move forward) and received Hex 28.2.6 to 33, which really puzzles me. Line 6 looks a bit scary but I have asked for advice so I am really not sure how to interpret it. Please help!

 

[Henry Zahir]

28 is today. Line 2 is in the morning, line 6 is at night. 33 is in 5 days and you are right. He is distracting you. Focus and get your part, move asap.

 

[Liselle]

Henry, please could you tell us where you got those associations? I'm not familiar with them.

 

[breakmov]

Hello veronica​

I imagine it like this:

28.2.6---33
"how to learn to deal with this crisis with more detachment, a broader perspective where everyone involved feels safe."

hex28 --- crisis, exit from a ruined structure
hex33--- withdrawal, a position of non-direct involvement, a detachment for a broader perspective.


28.2-- gather your strength to learn to see a "new direction" that influences the old reasons for divorce with a new stance that promotes an approach between you regaining balance....like "The withered poplar sprouts a new shoot"

28.6: remove yourself from this posture of running forward without regard to the consequences... learn not to be tempted to transgress with excesses that only lead to distress and desperate situations.


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[Henry Zahir]

Henry, please could you tell us where you got those associations? I'm not familiar with them.

I would like too, but lets say for now experience, math, and an down-to-earth view when it comes to the I Ching. She wanted advice, and not explanations about the hexagrams. If you want to learn, lets follow us and talk in private. Salú

 

[Herny Zahir]

Hello guys,

I would be most grateful for your advice again. My husband and I are getting divorced, I am keen to keep things simple, to sell the marital home and split everything equally, he doesn’t want to sell the house but is not able to buy me out. He is implying that the house should be kept for our daughter but I cannot afford to do that because the house is the only equity I have and I am 53, I also have a son from a previous relationship and I need to provide a home for both my children. My husband seems to be playing delaying tactics and not making any efforts to resolve things, which might end up in court if we cannot agree.

Tonight I asked: What is the best way to deal with B? (To be able to reach an agreement and to be able to move forward) and received Hex 28.2.6 to 33, which really puzzles me. Line 6 looks a bit scary but I have asked for advice so I am really not sure how to interpret it. Please help!

How did this work out, or is it in process? TY