Advice regarding Hexagram 10.3

[veronica]

Hi guys,

I haven't been around for ages! I have recently taken advantage of Hilary's mentoring program, which was absolutely fab! Out of funds at the moment though so I need your urgent advice regarding 10.3.

I have asked for advice regarding my current situation (What is the best course of action regarding my ex partner to achieve a stability in life) and I got hexagram 10.3 moving to 1. My situation briefly is that we split up a few months ago and there is an outstanding issue of sorting out my ex-partner's access to our son. At the moment my ex is trying to convince me to get back with him and making all sorts of efforts but if this fails he keeps threatening with legal action to fight for our son. I have a feeling that despite his recent good behaviour and efforts to wow me back he is secretly planning how best to fight me in court (possibly collecting information against me???). Line 10.3 worries me a little, as it indicates that I am being too trusting/naive in this situation?? I thought I was being cautious but perhaps I am spending too much time with my ex (for the sake of our son) and exposing myself to danger?

The hexagram 10 speaks of treading on the tail of the tiger but not getting bitten whereas line 3 warns of the danger of actually getting bitten but I don't know quite how to prevent it.

Please let me have your thoughts!

Many thanks!

 

[dobro p]

10.3 talks about getting bitten because you can't see everything that's going on in the situation, plus you don't have either the skill or the capacity to deal with the situation. So, what that suggests is: get more information, and get some expert help.

 

[veronica]

Many thanks for this. Another thought I had on this was that perhaps the line warns of the danger of going back with this man?

Anyone else has any more experiences with hexagram 10 line 3 moving to hexagram 1 as an advice on the best course of action to get somewhere? Many thanks!

 

[mudpie]

Hi guys,

I have a feeling that despite his recent good behaviour and efforts to wow me back he is secretly planning how best to fight me in court (possibly collecting information against me???). Line 10.3 worries me

I think you are "feeling" accurately, according to this reading. I can't say anything that Dobro didn't say quite succinctly. Do whatever you can to protect yourself, and because of the nature of 10, I would be cautious in your behaviors. Don't compromise yourself or your reputation in any way, and play your cards close to your chest. be impeccable. Good luck.