Alcohol 61.2.5.6>24

[goddessliss]

What is his relationship with alcohol

Hex 61.2.5.6>24

What is the potential I will be dealing with alcoholism from him

Hex 48.5>46

- Liss

 

[butterfly spider]

Hello
I am not quite sure what to make of your casting - although I have a feeling that if you are heading down the path of attraction to possibly unsuitable men you should hold back until you have found out a bit more about this particular one

I am only replying here because I wanted to know about a situation with my flat - dealing with the landlord and knowing where I stand with lease renewal. I got 64.24 to 23. I looked at other threads with the same casting and came across one that you had posted in 2012 - also 64.24 to 23 asking about alcohol and men in your life.

I think Pocosain gave very sound advise on this thread - which is relevant to this reading too(and for my question). We all tend to be attracted to a certain type of person and repeat the same mistakes in a different model. I don't get a really bad vibe from your present reading at all but just a sense of not going too far until you know more. Going in with eyes wide open whatever you decide is always a good option - dont get too carried away

Easier said than done I know but both readings (2 years apart) are asking more or less the same thing
I thought all men in Australia were blonde muscular and handsome?
Xx

 

[ginnie]

What is his relationship with alcohol
Hex 61.2.5.6>24

What is the potential I will be dealing with alcoholism from him
Hex 48.5>46

While he might enjoy a drink now and then, it appears from this reading that he in no way could be considered troublesome to you.

 

[goddessliss]

Thanks Ginnie that's great news!

Thanks Butterfly Spider - no it's not a love interest, it's my next landlord.
The environment I live in is very, very important to me - living in an environment where there is addiction of any kind alcohol, food, hoarding etc. can have a huge impact on others.
My experience has taught me they take their issues out on the people around them.
He has expressed his enjoyment of sharing a bottle of wine with others and when I was there looking at the rental I noticed he was reading a book on codependency, which of course covers a lot of areas and there could be a zillion reasons why he is reading it.

- Liss

 

[goddessliss]

PS Re Aussie men - Obviously you've never watched Kingswood Country!!

 

[butterfly spider]

Hello
It struck me in the night that your reading was on these lines - and knowing that you are moving wondered if it was your landlord.

In that case I agree with Ginnie - I don't think that there is a problem with alcohol in relation to you - I think it is a comfortable reading I think. Sounds like a nice landlord to me and even if he enjoys a bottle of wine the codependency book either means he is learning to cut down on alcohol or has a friend who needs to. Either way I have looked at your present reading again and agree that this aspect of your new landlord will be OK.

I don't have a TV and The last time I watched Neighbours was in 1990 - and I had a Skippy the kangaroo video. Love Crocodile Dundee. My image if Aussie men is a bit outdated....
Xx

 

[goddessliss]

Hello
It struck me in the night that your reading was on these lines - and knowing that you are moving wondered if it was your landlord.

In that case I agree with Ginnie - I don't think that there is a problem with alcohol in relation to you - I think it is a comfortable reading I think. Sounds like a nice landlord to me and even if he enjoys a bottle of wine the codependency book either means he is learning to cut down on alcohol or has a friend who needs to. Either way I have looked at your present reading again and agree that this aspect of your new landlord will be OK.

I don't have a TV and The last time I watched Neighbours was in 1990 - and I had a Skippy the kangaroo video. Love Crocodile Dundee. My image if Aussie men is a bit outdated....
Xx

Haha well like any place there's gorgeous, lovely men and then...there's not.

True about the codependency stuff but I've had issues with his lack of communicating effectively although I did speak to him about it.
We made our agreement and then about half hour later he was umming and ahhing about things and sort of left me without a concrete answer about whether I could actually rent from him.
He rang me a few days later to ask if I was still interested, we met up again and I asked him if he could communicate a bit clearer with me in the future so I knew what was going on.
He said yes of course. This time I left him without a clear date when I could move in.
Today he sent me a cryptic message which still left me non the wiser about when I could move in so I asked him a straight question about when can I move in exactly. He came back with another cryptic answer.....all this leaves me with frustration and doubts about whether it's going to be a harmonious environment, hence my other thread asking questions.
- Liss

 

[butterfly spider]

Sorry if I jumped the gun on your relationship with this man -I should have asked first - apologies

It is strange however that I got 64.23 to 23 for a question to do with my landlord (basically can I trust them really). You got it in reply to a question to do with alcohol and men. This was almost identical timing too
There must be a connection
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Ps have pm you but I think it got lost so posting here as well

 

[goddessliss]

Don't worry about not asking - I didn't say on the post when I started it but just as an aside I no longer have an inclination to be looking for a man to share my life, sad but true.

 

[butterfly spider]

You could try emigrating if you have no luck in Australia ...

At school my best friend's mother who was in her 4th husband gave me some advise:
Men fall into certain categories all connected with being abandoned alone in a desert Island (with shark infested waters..

1. You would try and stop them from swimming ...
2. You would stay
3. You would decide to swim

Xx

 

[butterfly spider]

There was a 4th option that is actually not very nice and could have a connection with husbands no 1 2 and 3...

4. You could get him to build a raft and set sail - then push him off (into shark infested waters...

 

[ginnie]

Regarding his lack of clarity in telling you when you can move in, remember that the I Ching said that progress would be gradual. Maybe you might ask him if there's some way you can help him get the space ready . . .

 

[butterfly spider]

Just told my 15 year old son about the desert island scenario and men
He said I was being sexist ....
He said that if a man had written it someone would have complained ....


Sorry if I offended anyone - it could equally apply to women too.
Hope you have a moving date soon

 

[goddessliss]

Thanks Ginnie - the space is more than ready, I feel he is stalling because he's the one that's not ready for a permanent tenant but he's the one that asked me not once but twice if I was interested and thank you for the reminder about gradual progress.
Once a decision has been made I feel let's act on it especially in lieu of the present conditions for the move.

Butterfly spider to be honest I'm not really understanding your analogy re men, islands and sharks and it has to be something very personal for me to get offended these days. What we get offended about at a much younger age no longer affects me now I'm 54.

- Liss

 

[butterfly spider]

I once had a situation where someone offered me a room in a shared house. The man (work colleague who had approached me) was very keen and since I was moving to a new area It was perfect. However the proposed date was put back and then there was an issue with the plumbing and then various other nebulous excuses
Turns out his girlfriend didn't want another girl in the house (he was a lovely guy but not my type). He kept me hanging on for weeks and didn't have the wherewithal to deal with it. I have a feeling that you are right in that he may have reasons for procrastination. The guy I dealt with was very sweet and he was a great friend at work for 2 years. Your positive reading means that you have no issues with the landlord yourself I think

 

[butterfly spider]

Re islands sharks....
it's just me and my sense if humour and only really concerns men and sharing a house with them. There are obviously those people who you really want to live with (but who possibly don't want to live with you) those who are just fine and then there are those who you could never live with (ie you would take your chances and swim (even in shark infested waters.......the final option is where you get as much out of someone as you can and then get rid of them (into shark infested waters....

at 56 I have found the desert island scenario a useful tool in dealing with situations and sadly option 3 is becoming far more appealing .....

my son just thought that I should have put person not man - as he said that it could apply to women too. ...he said people of my age tended to be sexist without realising it. Perhaps but I think at our sort of age - we have become quite thick skinned (possibly from all the swimming in shark infested waters........
xx

 

[goddessliss]

I think he's just panicking about sharing his 'space' despite us living autonomously which I guess is fair enough as he doesn't know me.
Remember the bs I had initially with my present landlord/s - now they can't do enough for me including saying don't worry about the electricity bill this time and please let me offer you my ute/trailer and time to help you move and other stuff. Gosh why don't people just realise how lovely I am from the get go......

 

[butterfly spider]

Good luck with this
Obviously there are some sharks who turn vegetarian...
But.... A leopard doesn't change his spots....
Especially if their name is Bruce and he is a shark...

 

[goddessliss]

I moved in, we have no problems alcohol or otherwise - nice and welcome change for me.

 

[butterfly spider]

I thought the reading meant this - glad all is OK
Xx