Am I safe?? 31.4.5 to 15

[AAksed]

Hello. I'd like to know if some man is harming to me and if I will be safe: 31.4.5 to 15. Definitely iching and these hexagrams are answering me perfectly, but I need to be sure in interpretation. And how should I act faced with the situation?

31.The Judgement
Influence. Success.
Perseverance furthers.
To take a maiden to wife brings good fortune.
The Image
A lake on the mountain:
The image of Influence.
Thus the superior man encourages people to approach him
By his readiness to rece
ive them.

4 :
Perseverance brings good fortune.
Remorse disappears.
If a man is agitated in mind,
And his thoughts go hither and thither,
Only those friends
On whom he fixes his conscious thoughts
Will follow.

5:
The influence shows itself in the back of the neck.
No remorse.

15 The Judgement
Modesty creates success.
The superior man carries things through.

The Image​

Within the earth, a mountain:
The image of Modesty.
Thus the superior man reduces that which is too much,
And augments that which is too little.
He weighs things and makes them equal

 

[Trojina]

Same person you asked about here ?

Is he interested in me? 😅

Hello. I'm completely new in iching world so I thought it will be useful to post my simple or not 🤣 lifetime dilemma - is this person interested in me? I'm very shy to be honest so before making some move I'd like to be more sure. The outcome: 17.5 to 51. I would be very thankful for help with...

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Was he interested ? You never went back.

I'd like to know if some man is harming to me and if I will be safe:

I don't think I can tell you if you are safe or not based on a Yi answer given I know nothing of the threat you face. Are you talking about physical threat ?

 

[AAksed]

He was not interested. In this topic I'm talking about different person. I'm talking about physical and mental threat.

 

[iams girl]

Hi AAksed,

31.4.5>15
It sounds like it's worth making sure you have other stable people close to you to help you see things clearly if you're wondering if someone will be a physical or mental threat to you. That's pretty serious, and people on an online site can't tell you that for sure.

That said, I'm not getting major danger signals from the reading. It seems more like a lesson in dating. There's attraction (31), so keep focused (31.4), set reasonable boundaries (31.5), and remember moderation in all things (15).

If you decide this guy is worth it, Wilhelm/Baynes hex 31 commentary basically says that time and effort will be needed to find out if he just wants to use you or if he truly cares about your needs and wants to build a long-lasting relationship with you.:

"This is the meaning of the added admonition, 'Perseverance furthers,' for it is perseverance that makes the difference between seduction and courtship; in the latter the strong man takes a position inferior to that of the weak girl and shows consideration for her."