An exchange I didn't like hex 57 to 61 and other casts

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I recently met some old colleagues with whom I had a brief conversation. One in particular irritated me with his malicious attitude towards me and some jokes I didn't like. I wasn't sure of my answers in this situation, revealing more about me than I wanted to say. I asked Iching how it rated my interaction and received 57.1.3 leading to 61.
In this response I see that I have communicated my inner truth but also a sense of instability regarding my choices. I asked what consequences this conversation (in which other ex-colleagues were also present) might have and received 44.1, a fat pig to keep in check. I wondered if I should just rein in my anxiety about this meeting or if I should do something, maybe this answer suggesting some gossip about me. I asked what to do and the answer was 46.4 to 32, which seemed to suggest a sacrifice of some kind. Then I asked: what if I ignore them instead and simply avoid meeting them in the future? The answer was 29 unchanging, which made me a little worried. How would you interpret this response?
Thank you in advance for any advice

 

[breakmov]

hello Noukii

an option to ponder:

I recently met some old colleagues with whom I had a brief conversation. One in particular irritated me with his malicious attitude towards me and some jokes I didn't like. I wasn't sure of my answers in this situation, revealing more about me than I wanted to say. I asked Iching how it rated my interaction and received 57.1.3 leading to 61.

57.1.3>61
"a difficulty in freeing yourself from the influence that "this meeting" had on you"

-why not make the decision to preserve your internal strength in the face of an unpredictable situation like that "unexpected meeting" (what was said and you weren't expecting it)?
- Why do you "continue to deal" with a situation that is not in your power to decide its outcome?
...why not let it go, and treat it as a little unexpected situation and let it disperse to its rightful place?

I asked what consequences this conversation (in which other ex-colleagues were also present) might have and received 44.1

" "this meeting" was something that had a temptation in your internal stability but that must be faced with a "flexibility of adaptation" in order to preserve your strength.

I asked what to do and the answer was 46.4 to 32

" what is the "essential offer" that you can carry in your heart so that "this meeting" does not become a "hunt without a game" but an aligned and consistent advance that honors your life?"
-let go of this little setback, this "hunt without a game", and embrace something more essential that can be offered to a better destination."

PS-I forgot this one, here it goes:

what if I ignore them instead and simply avoid meeting them in the future? The answer was 29 unchanging

29 UN:
"Is it possible to express a higher purpose in this enlightened confrontation?...this higher purpose is misplaced, it makes no sense in the way you think."
-You don't have to "ignore them and avoid them in the future" but understand for yourself the highest purpose of gaining clarity in realizing the dangerous place of your anxiety in relation to this "unexpected encounter"

breakmov

 

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hello Noukii

an option to ponder:



57.1.3>61
"a difficulty in freeing yourself from the influence that "this meeting" had on you"

-why not make the decision to preserve your internal strength in the face of an unpredictable situation like that "unexpected meeting" (what was said and you weren't expecting it)?
- Why do you "continue to deal" with a situation that is not in your power to decide its outcome?
...why not let it go, and treat it as a little unexpected situation and let it disperse to its rightful place?




" "this meeting" was something that had a temptation in your internal stability but that must be faced with a "flexibility of adaptation" in order to preserve your strength.




" what is the "essential offer" that you can carry in your heart so that "this meeting" does not become a "hunt without a game" but an aligned and consistent advance that honors your life?"
-let go of this little setback, this "hunt without a game", and embrace something more essential that can be offered to a better destination."

PS-I forgot this one, here it goes:


29 UN:
"Is it possible to express a higher purpose in this enlightened confrontation?...this higher purpose is misplaced, it makes no sense in the way you think."
-You don't have to "ignore them and avoid them in the future" but understand for yourself the highest purpose of gaining clarity in realizing the dangerous place of your anxiety in relation to this "unexpected encounter"

breakmov

Dear breakmov, thank you very much. The way you analyzed the readings is really enlightening and I also have to say that I was trying to grasp the same interpretation or something similar, I really hoped that what Yi was telling me is to let go and focus on my strength, but I was afraid to be wrong and to have to "fix" my behaviour in some way. I needed someone to see it for me... Thank you again