An invitation and 40.1.4

[raceecho]

So here's the deal, I'll keep it concise as possible. There's someone I'm interested in, and I think it's pretty fair to say she feels the same way. She can be confusing though at times. Sometimes we talk for hours, sometimes we don't talk for days. It's been hard for us to see each other though due to circumstances out of our control, especially with finals coming up next week (We're both in college). I really would love to see her though as I've been pretty down lately, and my best friend is having a birthday bash for his sister pretty close to her house tomorrow.

So I asked how should she respond if I invited her and got 40.1.4

I am assuming this is a fairly auspicious answer to my question, right haha? It talks about being without error, and that his companion comes. What does deliverance from the big toe mean though? I am just curious if there is anything underlying I should know about.

Cheers, Danny.

 

[precision grace]

So here's the deal, I'll keep it concise as possible. There's someone I'm interested in, and I think it's pretty fair to say she feels the same way. She can be confusing though at times. Sometimes we talk for hours, sometimes we don't talk for days. It's been hard for us to see each other though due to circumstances out of our control, especially with finals coming up next week (We're both in college). I really would love to see her though as I've been pretty down lately, and my best friend is having a birthday bash for his sister pretty close to her house tomorrow.

So I asked how should she respond if I invited her and got 40.1.4

I am assuming this is a fairly auspicious answer to my question, right haha? It talks about being without error, and that his companion comes. What does deliverance from the big toe mean though? I am just curious if there is anything underlying I should know about.

Cheers, Danny.

As you've asked about her response and notwithstanding the opinion of some who insists that Yi always answers about you, the querent rather than the third party, and further, relating to your statement that she is sometimes confusing, I would say that her response is likely to be positive if probably somewhat confusing. 40.4 I feel may refer to involvement of someone else. Perhaps she will arrive separately, with another friend? or you will ask a friend to ask her? Maybe the better question would have been 'how to ask her so to get a positive response'?

 

[raceecho]

I asked, and I got 12 unchanging. Isn't that basically telling me to say nothing? Or does it mean that I should wait for her to contact me first then ask her? On a side note though, I wouldn't think she'd show up alone, she is always with her best friend, especially in social situation.

 

[precision grace]

I asked, and I got 12 unchanging. Isn't that basically telling me to say nothing? Or does it mean that I should wait for her to contact me first then ask her? On a side note though, I wouldn't think she'd show up alone, she is always with her best friend, especially in social situation.

Hm. Maybe her best friend is that big toe.. I'm not sure what 12 is counseling here, it's either saying that this wasn't the right question or that you cannot get a positive response. At the end of the day, if you are already friends, then it shouldn't be too conspicuous to ask her if she wants to come along to this party. Although maybe is as well to bear in mind that if she says no it may be due to circumstances rather than her not wanting to go.

 

[raceecho]

I've looked at some articles on the forum, and I've noticed many people have correlated 40 with sexual energy, or even synergy rather. I wonder if that could play a role, since I'm fairly sure that neither of us has been sexually active for at least the last couple months.

I also read a line on here that stated something along the lines of "You get what you ask for", which sounds like it strongly relates to the idea of remote influence. Basically, if you truly believe something will happen, without a doubt, than the outcome is inevitable. I do tend to over analyze and get to thinking negatively at points, but once I meditate on it I feel completely positive about the situation.

Any other thoughts?

 

[hopex]

I have been reading up on hexagram 40 and found this

I do not think 40 refers to sexual energy - at least I have
not seen it

I think line one means you would not be making a mistake in asking

line 4 that she would take her friend as it is such a casual invitation
rather than a 'date' - so i assume she trolleyed along to the bash??

as a little secret if you are interested in a girl give her 3 days notice
- its courteous. They may have plans or like to get ready - nik naks
to buy - girls like to prepare themselves

if you keep asking last minute expect rejection as people may be busy
- and you may take it the wrong way. Organised people really hate
impromptu stuff that they are not prepared for