Becoming a Father: 11>28, 57>59 and 7 uc

[Fanofenka]

It's hard to be in a relationship nowadays, especially if one doesn't have a high-paying job or a successful career. My cousin got married at age 28 as he has a successful career after finishing his bachelor's. I am doing a master's and experienced my ups and downs. I got a compliment where I took a niche Japanese music genre and made it accessible to younger people.

What will it be like becoming a father? 11.2 Flow/Peace/Harmony/Contenement to 28 Brightness Hidden/Darkening of the Light/Intelligence Wounded.
11.2=I will have to give up the past and be successful.
It is saying that it will be rewarding (11) but will affect my day-to-day lives?

What will it be like staying single? 57.3 Subtly Penetrating/The Gentle/Wind to 59 Dispersing/Dissolution.
57.3=There will be hardships, and it isn't good for me
It is saying that things won't happen (57) where I will be going away (59)?

How likely will I gain a relationship in the future? 7 uc The Army/Host of the Multitude
Is it saying that there is strife competition?

 

[steve]

Hi

Primarily, I am replying to your cast hexagram 7 Unchanging.

Sometimes, not always, when the oracle replies with an unchanging hexagram. The oracle could be raising its voice. wanting you to deal with something immediately before giving more advice. Or, the situation is not moving fast in the sense of things need to be dealt with before you can get back on the correct path.

Anyway, the hexagram, to me at least, is about organizing yourself. You are the General and all things that should be put in place are your soldiers. For example, this could be a simple thing like keeping the house tidy.

If the advice of Hexagram 7 is followed it promises a good outcome.

To me, the Yi may be advising in taking steps in that direction to make yourself attractive. Keeping in mind the type of woman you may be trying to attract. As you may have seen, there are plenty of them out there.

Take a look at the forum on unchanging hexagrams and check out what others have experienced.


Steve