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Bread and butter readings

slice of bread with butter
The second line of Hexagram 37 (and the second thing Yi suggested I write about) says,

‘No direction to pursue,
Stay in the centre and cook.
Constancy, good fortune.’

Hexagram 37, line 2

This line places us, and our readings, firmly at the foundations of Maslow’s pyramid:

Maslow's pyramid: physiological needs at the bottom, then safety, belonging, esteem & self-actualisation

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There’s no call to charge off and explore the world; just stay home and put the rice on to boil. In other words, it is OK to ask about the ordinary, everyday stuff of just getting by.

changing to​

Changing this line points to Hexagram 9, Small Taming: a hexagram for the small farmer waiting for better weather. It’s a time when there are – often frustratingly – no openings to do big things; small work is all there is to be done. But you can do your small work in alignment with heaven’s purposes: hoe the next row, chop the onions, and ask small questions about today’s small concerns. You don’t need grand plans and broad visions to talk with Yi.

That may be counter-intuitive: this is a vast, splendid oracle, so isn’t it meant for the big questions? ‘Who am I?’ ‘What is my calling?’ ‘What are my gifts?’ ‘How can I serve the world?’?

And it’s true, it is for these questions – and for the everyday. People need limitless explorations, and they also need to be fed; Yi responds to our needs.

I’m fond of saying that each reading needs a clear intention behind it. (What will change as a result of this reading?) Only… that intention could be to decide whether to spend $30, or to find a way to have a better conversation, or to get through the next 24 hours in one piece. If your immediate intention is to decide which phone to buy, then that can be your next reading.

At the heart of these ordinary, domestic readings, there’s a rare gift: they can tap into deep wells of meaning.

To access this potential, you need to avoid getting stuck in an endless cycle of, ‘What about option a?’ ‘What about option b?’ readings. I’ve found that those can become quite arid. They might just stop speaking to you, as the feeling of connection to an oracle dries up. Or they might still make sense, be useful, but nonetheless feel empty and dry, like the husks of real readings.

What works better for me is to take half a step back and ask a broader question. Maybe…

  • What’s a guiding principle for buying a phone?
  • What would I really be doing, if I signed up to this?
  • What to remember during today’s meetings?

This creates an opening to deeper meaning, allowing the everyday stuff to become more nourishing.

It’s interesting to look at the paired line of 37.2 – that is, the same line, seen from the opposite angle when you invert the hexagram –

turned upside down is​
‘No direction to pursue,
Stay in the centre and cook.
Constancy, good fortune.’

37.2
‘Regrets vanish.
Your ancestor bites through the skin.
Why would going on be wrong?’

38.5

Paired lines can tell a story. Here, it seems the membrane between worlds, between mundane and profound, small and great, is no match for the ancestor’s teeth. Cook at the centre, and perhaps he may come in to your table.

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Bread and butter readings
... And it’s true, it is for these questions – and for the everyday. People need limitless explorations, and they also need to be fed; Yi responds to our needs.
... At the heart of these ordinary, domestic readings, there’s a rare gift: they can tap into deep wells of meaning.
...this article as a pdf
Hi Hilary:

I love your post. It reminds me an italian page that mixes the I Ching with «HOW TO COOK OUR LIFE» maybe you already know it, if not may you enjoy it. Must say that's written in italian.
Here: Come cucinare la nostra vita
A quote taken from the site:
Xuedou Zongxian, 980-1052 of our era, known for his poems, was a Zen master of the Sung dynasty.

«All we encounter is our life.
How do we want to cook our life in its entirety?

The things, situations and people we meet every day in living are absolutely not in a uniform and regular order. No matter how hard we try to seek absolute truths with a thousand efforts, we will not be able to understand everything. When we look for immutable truths then we always fail.

The truth of life can only be found "in this wave, in the next", which means only in each of our activities down to the smallest and seemingly insignificant. Looking for the moonlight, we find it in every wave.»

Source: https://www.comecucinarelanostravita.it/come-me-la-cucino-tre/
[With the help of Google Translate]

All the best,

Charly
 

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There’s no call to charge off and explore the world; just stay home and put the rice on to boil. In other words, it is OK to ask about the ordinary, everyday stuff of just getting by.


I find 37.2 can be as much about staying home to attend to your spiritual or emotional needs as much as it can be about your physical needs.
 

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I find 37.2 can be as much about staying home to attend to your spiritual or emotional needs as much as it can be about your physical needs.
Good point. But there would still be the similar point, that you don’t need to go on a year-long pilgrimage or seek out ayahuasca in the Amazon.
 

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Oh no, you don't need to reach out beyond what is intimate to you. What is intimate might be your bowl of soup as you like it, your private spiritual practise, anything that makes your home space your home space in all senses. This can be on any level of need. Your 'home space' doesn't have to be literal.
 
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Although come to think of it I don't associate 37 with intimacy, it seems far more formal, more structured. There's the family roles, the formal roles within the home that aren't necessarily to do with intimacy but structure.


37.2 what is in my own sphere of interest, responsibility, affection. If she stays home to cook, she's fully occupied, contained in her sphere, central to nourishment.


Thinking of it literally if you are the 'one doing the cooking' then 'they' come in to you.
 

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Harmen's comment on the original post is pertinent:
The 5th line of 38 talks about ancestors eating the meat offering that is given to them as a sacrifice. If this line connects to 37.2 then 37.2 might point to the reason behind the preparation of food that it talks about: the character 饋 used in that sentence can also refer to ‘offering food to others’ – in this case the ancestors that were still regarded as part of the family. Kui 饋 is more than simply ‘cooking’ – it might refer to a whole ritual of entertaining guest and ancestors with the proper food, at the right time and circumstances.
 

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I find 37.2 can be as much about staying home to attend to your spiritual or emotional needs as much as it can be about your physical needs.
Hi Trijina:

By Claudia, aka Nina Laluna:
La vida es como una receta, cada uno le encuentra su ingrediente secreto.
Life is like a recipe, each one finds its secret ingredient.
Nina_Laluna_(c).jpg
Source: Nina Laluna
All the best,

Charly
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P.D.:
Nina_Laluna_b.jpg
I've found a recipe there:

HOW TO BECOME «BOOK TASTER»:
  1. Choose a book
  2. Sniff it!
  3. Test its smoothness
  4. Study it from different perspectives
  5. [continue with it]
  6. Now taste it! Take your time...
  7. Wait for an accurate digestion
  8. Unusual dancing
    and yawling to the moon
    are possible secondary effects.

Nina_Laluna_How_to_Become.jpg
[click to expand]
Source: Nina Laluna
Ch.
 
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There’s no call to charge off and explore the world; just stay home and put the rice on to boil. In other words, it is OK to ask about the ordinary, everyday stuff of just getting by.
his article as a pdf
Maslow's hierarchy of needs talks about us not fully functioning at the higher levels until our needs have been met in the lower, i.e.we cannot truly begin to feel safe until our needs for food, water, warmth and rest have been met to a good enough level, and so on up the triangle.

For me it's not so much about charging off to explore the world but to be focused on building and maintaining the foundations. Bake the bread and become proficient at it before attempting to make the Truffle Chicken and potato gratin.

It's no good offering a meal of Truffle Chicken and potato gratin to the ancestors if you do not feel safe in your knowledge and ability of how to make cheese first.
And to top it all, it would be a real shame to go to the trouble of catching, gutting and plucking that chicken only to find that the ancestors are vegetarian. Even if you are not reallyon speaking terms, ask them whether they like chicken before you invite them then there can be no blame.
 

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Note to self: check ancestors' dietary preferences.

Are you thinking we need to reshuffle Maslow? Perhaps we do. It's no use worrying about how to grow potatoes unless you first cultivate your relationship with ancestors who can sort out some rain when you need it.
 

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Are you thinking we need to reshuffle Maslow? Perhaps we do. It's no use worrying about how to grow potatoes unless you first cultivate your relationship with ancestors who can sort out some rain when you need it.
Yes. How about The SlowMa Hierarchy of Needs? - sounds much better for the marketing boys to get their teeth into. " Cooking the old fashioned way at Slow Ma's - Authentic Chinese recipes guaranteed.

A low heat and leave the rice to simmer for a long time. If you do choose the meat option then it'll be real tender and succulent cooked this way.

I think that there is an ampidexterous quality to 37.2 in that the potatoes grow however or whenever we are cultivating our relationship to the ancestors. Rain is optional and as you say is not in our hands to deliver, however we need to be aware that too much of it could make the sauce a bit too thin.
 

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And to top it all, it would be a real shame to go to the trouble of catching, gutting and plucking that chicken only to find that the ancestors are vegetarian. ...
Hi Michael:

Ancestors were never vegetarians. They liked meat so much that only the smell of barbecue replenished their hearts. If they had not indulged in some carnal temptations, they would not have been ancestors. They would have been blamed for lack of filial piety with their own ancestors.

Somewhere in the Changes it's said that «ancestors bite soft meat», I believe to remember. (1)

When there was a guily concience they were the cause or re-morse, they were biting again and again!

All the best,

Charly
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Now I see that Hilary quoted 38.5 scrolling up in this thread.
Ch.
 
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