Breakup of My Marriage by a third party?

[devidao]

I asked, "Show me the role __X___ played in my breakup with my husband."Answer: 33 UnchangingCan someone interpret this for me? This woman was hired by my husband at work. Shortly after, I decided to ask my husband to separate so we could work on the relationship. I have strong reason to believe that he and this other woman were flirting and starting their now established relationship at that time.I just want to know if she actively pushed my husband to leave. There was a time when he said he wanted to come back but that he was unwilling to cut off contact with her....we have a two year old son. IF she did something like this, well, it would be pretty awful.Thank you in advance.

 

[moss elk]

I decided to ask my husband to separate so we could work on the relationship.

I just want to know if she actively pushed my husband to leave.

No, you are the one that did.

 

[Freedda]

What the response is suggesting is that you need to put distance between you and your husband right now, regardless of the other woman's role in this. There is not much to be gained speculating about her role, which takes a distant fourth to the stakes you, and your husband, and your son have in this.