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Hi everyone, I’m hoping to get some feedback from others on a reading I did this morning. The hexagram I received was 24 with changing lines 2, 4, and 5.
A month ago, my partner broke up with me unexpectedly. It’s a long story, but basically he has a definite avoidant attachment style, and was very upset when I brought up that he had been promising to do things and not following through. And also brought up some other honesty related issues.
When we broke up, he said he needed space but still wanted us to have a conversation about us. As of earlier this week, he was still saying he hadn’t had enough time to think about things (he’s a busy person; which I think also goes back to the avoidance).
Yesterday, I sent him a message telling him why I want us to have a conversation. I explicitly said (for the first time) that I think he distanced himself from me and then suddenly ended our relationship because he wanted to avoid confronting the impact of his actions, and that I wanted us to talk about that (and also about how I handled our last two conversations, which wasn’t great).
This is a person I love, and would like to have a relationship with, but there are things that would have to change.
My question to the I Ching was “What influence will my message to [him] ultimately have on the situation?”
A month ago, my partner broke up with me unexpectedly. It’s a long story, but basically he has a definite avoidant attachment style, and was very upset when I brought up that he had been promising to do things and not following through. And also brought up some other honesty related issues.
When we broke up, he said he needed space but still wanted us to have a conversation about us. As of earlier this week, he was still saying he hadn’t had enough time to think about things (he’s a busy person; which I think also goes back to the avoidance).
Yesterday, I sent him a message telling him why I want us to have a conversation. I explicitly said (for the first time) that I think he distanced himself from me and then suddenly ended our relationship because he wanted to avoid confronting the impact of his actions, and that I wanted us to talk about that (and also about how I handled our last two conversations, which wasn’t great).
This is a person I love, and would like to have a relationship with, but there are things that would have to change.
My question to the I Ching was “What influence will my message to [him] ultimately have on the situation?”