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ontheroad

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Met a man on online dating but something feels a bit off to me.
I'm heading to the town where he lives and was planning to camp there for a while in one of the local caravan parks. It's not hard to access where I'd be by foot so I'm just wondering if I should choose somewhere else to be.
I was already heading to this place before I started talking with him online.

What do I need to know about the need to be cautious with this man 18.4.6>32

I'm not sure about caution with him but more a reflection that he does have issues which he's not open to resolving and I need to keep away from him.
 

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Hi ontheroad,

I just got 18.2.4.6 to 62 in reference to a date and thought my experience would be useful. I'll post it in another thread with more detail, but in regards to your reading, I’d say his “rotting situation” isn’t close to improve (32, things stay as they are) and while it doesn’t speak directly of danger it isn’t encouraging a meeting either. Is there another place to go camping? I assume you’ve already told him you are going there and when? If so, maybe you can tell a little white lie and say you've changed the dates, and will be getting there another day?

In my experience, 18 in regards to other people has always meant a disgracefully chronic situation which I wasn't allowed to help change for the better, so I needed to back off and not get envolved in any way.

Hope this helps,
 

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Thank you.
So far I haven't heard anything from him since I said bye bye.
I haven't got to where I'm camping yet but it feels like he'll be over whatevervit could have potentially been by the time I get there
 

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We did meet and he did have a lot of issues. I met up with him 3 times over a few days and then knew it was a waste of time and his issues just kept piling up.
I understand everyone has 'stuff' but there's a difference between admitting it and trying to work it out and straight up denial.
 

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