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Plupp,
Sounds good to me
Best wishes,
Mick
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Hello again...
I asked: what does n feel for me? I got 63 without moving lines.
To me this means that he has no particular feelings at all for me, for him what was between us is completely over. This answer is quite a relief for me as I will see him again next week and we haven't seen each other for years. I can go to the meeting without any expectations what so ever, relaxed, not worrying about how I am looking, etc. Just thinking "the past is finally OVER", and when I leave this meeting I hope my mind will be as blank as an unwritten page.
I hope you'll give us a follow up after the meeting to add to the archives.
I see 63 as certainly meaning a good place of balance and harmony and would assume in your situation that this is reassuring you the episode you experienced together is complete. However, I don't see this as meaning people are neutral or insensitive to each other so you might need to be careful how you speak to him - or avoid him! - so as to maintain this peaceful feeling.
It just means that everything is in its proper place right now. Which means his feelings for you are in their proper place. Whatever that is. Cuz the Yi didn't actually tell you how he feels, right? And you don't actually know, right? Maybe he loves you. Maybe he loves you like a friend. Maybe he feels warm toward you. Maybe no feelings at all much. But whatever he feels, that's the way it's supposed to be for him right now.
But if you're meeting him next week, then it's obvious that the past is NOT over, no matter how desperate you are to reduce the anxiety about the meeting. And if you want your mind to be as blank as an unwritten page, then why are getting together with him again? - that's just going to feed your mind with new impressions which will inevitably turn over and kick up feelings (maybe weak feelings, maybe turbulent feelings) which you will have to deal with until time calms things down again.
You're asking the Yi what he feels for you, but you'd do better to familiarize yourself with what you're feeling for him right now. If you know yourself and how you feel, you're in a position to handle the meeting well. If you don't know yourself and you have no idea about how you feel, you're going to that meeting blind.
Finally, you're asking the Yi for insider information about how he feels for you (even if you knew the answer to that question, would you be any better off? The assumption is that if he loves you, you'd give yourself to him. If he doesn't love you, you wouldn't. That assumption just gives your power away.) You'd be better off asking the Yi how to handle the meeting. 'What do I need to know about meeting him next week?"
Good luck with it. And yeah, report back.
Plupp,
I agree with the people who say you are taking a more negative view than you need to take.
63 says that as of right now, things are balanced and harmonious. This is a temporarily stable and positive situation.
In order for things to stay stable and positive, there has to be some maintenance work.
If the situation is taken for granted, and people are careless, then things will fall apart.
What concerns me is that your going with a blank mind might just the kind of taking the situation for granted that will make it fall apart.
Are you clear on what you would really like to have happen after all these years? Do you hope to feel loved? Do you hope to express a loving heart? Do you have blank curiosity? Do you want to make new boundaries in your life? To me, 63 says that you are better to have a plan than to just assume the good answer will pop into place without any help from you.
I would like to express a loving heart and I would like to make new boundaries in my life... well prepared by finding out as much I can about what I want ... I do hope that I can maintain a peaceful mind
That sounds to me like someone on the path to wisdom. :bows:
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