Could anyone help with a romantic ? 7 to 2

[tabitha]

Hello-

Ive asked about this relationship before usually I am told to wait-- which makes me want to ask again! I asked today about this person not calling me (yet?)
I like him, like his friendship and talk with him very easily. So when I asked
He hasnt contacted me- i dont know what to think, what do you advise- I received 7 ( changing line 2 ) to 2 ( I hope that is not redundant.) Can anyone offer any insight? It would be appreciated.
Im confused having read previous postson "romantic 7" issues line 2 seems to be about removing myself from the situation-thanks

 

[dobro p]

Ive asked about this relationship before usually I am told to wait-- which makes me want to ask again!

What's the point of interpreting for you if you don't take on the information that the Yi's offering to you?

Can anyone offer any insight? It would be appreciated.

Why offer insight that's not accepted?

 

[tabitha]

how am I not accepting information -- I didnt think i wasnt accepting information-- I just didnt how to interpret it. Also, I pretty much thought that things change from day to day-- Some days you wait-- other days you don't, as far as I understood it.

 

[Tohpol]

how am I not accepting information -- I didnt think i wasnt accepting information-- I just didnt how to interpret it. Also, I pretty much thought that things change from day to day-- Some days you wait-- other days you don't, as far as I understood it.

The point I think Dobro was making is that from your quote: "Ive asked about this relationship before usually I am told to wait-- which makes me want to ask again!" suggests that you are not receptive to answers other than the ones you want to have. I know, it's easy to do. If you get answers you really don't want, then it's part of the teaching process in this system to think about and reflect on these hex's. It's essential, imo, to have a broad reference point (many translations)in order to get a reasonably accurate idea of what the hex and lines are saying in your given situation. That way, you can begin to build up a picture and with that effort the quality and depth of responses will also change.

7.2 - 2 seems to say strengthen your own resources, be in the present, stand on your own two feet and let things happen naturally. When you are an example then people will naturally gravitate towards you.

Topal

 

[jeb]

Hi tabitha.

Relationships deserve a divination system of their own with an idiots guide as back up! Love ( dare I say it!!) means so many different things to different people and these are as diverse as are the motives and inclinations of people when in them. I feel the truth is that no one can answer your question but you! The answer you seek lies in your feelings and the actions of the person to whom you refer and I feel the response you have refers you there. In my view if the person to which you refer is that ignorant as to ignore you or to let you down, what use to you is that? or if you are a little blind because of your feelings for this person then maybe you should ask yourself what is it about this person that makes you feel that way. Maybe you should ask yourself do you see more in it than there is? By relating your own answers to the grief that you are obviously feeling then maybe your own interpretation of I chings response will be clearer for you.

Jack

 

[rosada]

Although you have been advised to Wait, the I Ching may be telling you not to go off and wait in a foxhole. Do your paths cross from time to time? 7.2 is about being present in person. Hexagram 2 is about being Receptive. Together I think the suggestion is that you should make a point of being around him and then be alert to any signals he may put out.