Could someone help me with these readings? 61.2.5 to 27 and 41.2.5.6 to 3

[xumarhu]

I recently contacted a friend that I treated terribly, I apologized a lot and explained and he seemed very disillusioned, fed up and indifferent at the beginning. But we have been exchanging a few messages and hes giving me advice about personal issues im facing but is obviously very reserved and distant. Hes been very generous and in the past showed a lot of interest and gave me many chances but I could not fix my personal situation so I always let him down and withdrew from him.

My question was if I am in the wrong for expecting any romantic potential,

61.2.5 to 27

The 27 hex i think reflects the fact that we discussed serious health issues im facing so i think part of the answer is to nourish and focus on myself? about the individual lines, it sounds like a possibility?
i dont want to push anything and i feel very ashamed of my actions and the worst thing is trying to force attraction.

I also asked if we would facetime at some point,

41.2.5.6 to 3

line 2 seems to suggest that i should not take the initiative since i asked if i could call him at the very beginning and did not addressed it so rn is out of the question. The other 2 lines seem promising maybe.

My condition is very bad, I feel very anxious and sick, so I feel like im expecting the worst and in general im overreacting but i think im being cautious and respectful towards him.

Id very much appreciate any input.

 

[floranova]

I'm very new to the I ching so take my interpretation with a grain of salt but 61.2.5 says to me that no, you aren't wrong. The fact that this friend cares enough to give you advice shows underlying affection for you (reflected in the changing lines), they see you as coming from a genuine place but building trust and solidifying the relationship is something you're going to have to feed and nourish over time.

As for 41.2.5.6 I think it's reconfirming that you're going to want to take it slow and prove yourself with your actions so this person will be more inclined to want to interact with you

 

[xumarhu]

I'm very new to the I ching so take my interpretation with a grain of salt but 61.2.5 says to me that no, you aren't wrong. The fact that this friend cares enough to give you advice shows underlying affection for you (reflected in the changing lines), they see you as coming from a genuine place but building trust and solidifying the relationship is something you're going to have to feed and nourish over time.

As for 41.2.5.6 I think it's reconfirming that you're going to want to take it slow and prove yourself with your actions so this person will be more inclined to want to interact with you

thank you, yes, I think I can make it better.