Did my own cast. 3 to 63. Reconcile?

[Believe]

Dear all.

Thanks for the many advice in my previous thread.

And i read up and did a cast for myself.

Relationship problem. Ex girlfriend left me one year ago and went into another relationship.

My hexagram is 3.3 to 63.

I read. 3 is present.
63 is future.

How do we know when is the future?
Does a cast have a time line?

Please help.

 

[maggie may]

What is the question? Do you want a picture of why she left you? Do you want to try and get her back? Do you want to know what to do with yourself now that she had moved on? What is the problem?

 

[Believe]

What is the question? Do you want a picture of why she left you? Do you want to try and get her back? Do you want to know what to do with yourself now that she had moved on? What is the problem?

I want to know if we will reconcile.

I did not contact her for the past 1 year because she is in a new relationship. I do not want to break them up or be rejected by her.

 

[maggie may]

You say she left you and you have not spoken in a year and she is with someone else. I have to ask why in the world you think there is a possibility of reconciliation?

 

[Believe]

You say she left you and you have not spoken in a year and she is with someone else. I have to ask why in the world you think there is a possibility of reconciliation?

I used to be very bad tempered. I have a very bad habit of saying break up but i dont mean it.
The story is one fine day she told me she met the new person(totally opposite of me. I am slim and pleasant looking. The new one is fat and ugly (her own words)) when we were together. And she said she cant be liking 2 person at the same time. So i decided to leave. I was very mad and hurt but i kept my cool and never contact her anymore.There was no shouting no crying.
Because she kept a huge amount of my stuff at her house. Every few months she would ask to meet to exchange items but she never follow through.
And its my gut feeling that tells me she still loves me.

Can help with the reading please?

 

[diamanda]

Line 3.3 shows someone hunting a deer - in a forest he doesn't know. Furthermore the deer seems to be leading the hunter, in dark territory. The line advises to give up the hunt.

There is some crucial information you don't know about her. And, she seems to be misleading you (you said she's playing some games about giving your stuff back).

It's not to your advantage to reconcile with her. Give it up, conclude this issue (63).

 

[Believe]

What is the time line for every cast?

 

[diamanda]

There is no specific "time line for a cast".
Your question didn't include time, ie you didn't ask will we reconcile till the end of the year, for example. Your question was if you will reconcile in general, so the answer is general, and also the text of the answer doesn't mention a specific time frame.

Perhaps you can ask if there's anything you can do to get back together.

 

[Believe]

There is no specific "time line for a cast".
Your question didn't include time, ie you didn't ask will we reconcile till the end of the year, for example. Your question was if you will reconcile in general, so the answer is general, and also the text of the answer doesn't mention a specific time frame.

Perhaps you can ask if there's anything you can do to get back together.

I have some details to add.

My ex still have some clothes etc stuff with me. This month is her birthday. For the past few months i have thought of sending her stuff back by post but i never did. I feel conflicted.

And so i decided to cast a reading to ask if we will reconcile.
And it seems like line 3.3 is telling me not to send her stuff back.

 

[diamanda]

And so i decided to cast a reading to ask if we will reconcile.
And it seems like line 3.3 is telling me not to send her stuff back.

Your exact question was if you will reconcile. The answer says there's something you don't know and best to give up (so it sounds pretty much like a no). If you want to know how you should act (eg send back stuff or not) you need to ask another question with appropriate phrasing.

 

[Believe]

Thank you diamanda.

When i am ready i will cast another reading.

 

[Believe]

My apologies.

I went back to check my cast.

I got a 58.2.3.4 to 63.

How do i edit my thread title?