Dilemma. 53,3>20 or 26,2,3>27

[vikk]

Hello all!
Thank you for your great ideas about meanings of the hexagrams.
I am here to seek your help again in the following issue.
I am thinking if going to see my parents in January for the entire month. But now I'm reluctant of weather I should go or not.
I asked iChing what are her thoughts on me going and received 53.3>20
Them I asked what she thinks of me postponing the trip and received 26.2.3>27
Any ideas on what option I should go with?
I'm questioning this because recently my husband who I was supposed to divorce suggested that we work on our relationship.
Thank you all!
Hope to hear from you!

 

[mirian]

Hi vikk,

It is ever so difficult to guess what other people think or feel through readings but there you go, I understand your concerns.

You asked about visiting your parents and then used "she" in your questions, so I am assuming that this is your mother.

Looking into all your hexagrams and lines my impression is that somehow your parents (or particularly your mother) do not think that this is the right time to do it. This is somehow seen as a hasty decision and there is a call for you not to do it before thinking the whole thing through. I am not saying that they don't want you to go, I am saying that the timing does not seem right and you have to consider things before making a decision. Hope that makes sense to you :bows:

 

[vikk]

Hi! Thank you for the reply!
When I was saying "she" I meant IChing.
So what do you think she was saying to me?)))

 

[mirian]

Hi vikk,

That is interesting, I had never thought about the I Ching as a "she" I think that there have been some discussions somewhere on this Forum about the Yi being male or female I have no idea, darling. But in answer to your question, my interpretation is still the same. :bows:

 

[ginnie]

I asked iChing what are her thoughts on me going and received 53.3>20

The I Ching indicates that you would be going astray.

postponing the trip and received 26.2.3>27

The first line says the axle is broken, which obviously means an obstacle to going has arisen. The second moving line shows a galloping horse and indicates one who goes quickly.

So I think you should postpone the trip and later you will be able to go without obstruction.

 

[vikk]

Hi!

And thank you, girlies!!!! (I hope I am not mistaken in gender here. lol)

But nevertheless, that is what i am planning on doing - staying here for the moment and see when I can go to see my parents!

Thank you again!