Divorce: 63.4.6 changing to 13

[maitri]

Hello everyone,

I'm in the process of a divorce, which has been going on for some time. It's not an amicable situation, as my spouse and I are not on speaking terms. There is a great deal of anger and resentment directed toward me, which I can understand as I was the one who left. It wasn't a healthy relationship. Over the past few weeks, I have considered contacting my spouse to try to speak peacefully, but something inside me feels it isn't possible. I asked the I Ching how to best go forward in this time, in relation to the pending trial.

Any insights you have are sincerely appreciated. Thanks for reading.

 

[gato]

Yi tells you not to do it . fine clothes turning to rags plus you get your head into water ( not your tail but your head ).

I have been in same situation once and I can tell you that trying to bring peace will only make things worst. In every woman head there is a bizarre idea that if a men talks with her he likes her ( i mean he likes her in a romantic way ).

 

[ginnie]

I agree with Gato: don't contact him. If anything could possibly go wrong, it will.

Line 4 moving in H63 is just so tricky. It's like you think it's all settled, but your concentration slips for one single moment, and the whole situation goes the wrong way. I wouldn't risk it, if I were you.

 

[maitri]

Thank you for your responses. I'll just make peace with it in my mind, and send positive thoughts to all involved (including myself!).

 

[willowfox]

Two nasty lines 63.4,6, one warning you to becareful and the other telling you not to be stupid and look back, in other words don't resort to trying to make contact as you will get big trouble.

Proudly walk forward with your head held high and leave him alone.

 

[maitri]

Thank you for the reassurance