Does my boyfriend have another woman ? CRUSHED

[nykkic]

the answer was Hexagram 3 Line 4

we had problems in our relationship so I suspected he has another woman ... the ching said 3.4.. so he is looking for union .. oh god .. does this really mean he has another woman or am I crazy in fear?


PLEASE HELP

 

[nykkic]

Please help me with an answer... SOMEBODY .. please

 

[Trojina]

You've been here before and had the same cast of 3.4, here


http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/frie...k-there-are-TWO-possible-meanings-PLEASE-HELP


I'd repeat pretty much what I said there.



There are ways and means for everything. If you want a fact then use plain human fact seeking behaviour. This might involve


asking him
asking his friends
watching his behaviour
and all the other things people do to check up on their boyfriends and so on.

I can see why you'd ask the I Ching but here you need other methods of gaining factual information.

It's like I could sit in a room with the curtains closed and ask Yi "Is there a tree outside my window ?" I might get an answer I don't understand and spend hours discussing the cast with others. Or I could open the curtains and look out of the window.

You call out for HELP but I can't see how I can help you as I don't know what your boyfriend is up to.




I think it would be more helpful to make questions around what you need to do. The answers will be easier to understand. You could ask about whether you should place trust in him ? If you get an answer that says you can then at least you have a little guidance on your own attitude.

 

[Trojina]

Also bear in mind if your boyfriend is being unfaithful you will not die....

Also bear in mind given the level of sheer terror this relationship brings. You say you are

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crazy in fear?

....that you may be much happier in the long run without him ?


OTOH maybe he isn't screwing anyone else and you are just feeling paranoid ?

It's impossible to say...Why don't you ask "Is it good for me to place my trust in xxx ?" Again that won't tell you for certain if he is screwing around but at least you will have a little guidance in how to orientate yourself in your emotions ?

 

[butterfly spider]

Whenever I have has exactly the same answer to a question it has meant that I am not seeing something that is staring at me in the face. Like telling someone once and then secondly louder to make sure they hear

I think you need to go back to your last posting and look at it as if you were going to give yourself advise as an outside observer
This helps sometimes