Domineering/Control Issue 40.2.4>2

[squirrele]

My mom has control issues she has used on me since I was little, but I never failed to see this, always thought it was just a Moms love and care that was normal way of reaction. Eventually today i asked the IChing, if she is in fact domineering/controlling me for her own issues?
I got 40.2.4 >2 Release > Earth. Would appreciate your insight on this.

I have dedicated today to my IChing learning, I took the Lesson 1 on the course, and am very excited to have been lucky enough to have come across this amazing tool.

 

[ginnie]

40.2.4
Second line moving indicates that you are in the process of working this through, in terms of understanding it.

Fourth line moving is a line that gives diviners trouble, as its meaning is not clear. Hilary in her new I Ching suggests that you "let go your requirements for how things (especially relationships) must be." "When you release your thumbs, you release your grip." The suggestion is that you are focused too intently on how parent/child relationships "ought" to be. That would be one interpretation of your reading.

 

[dragona]

40.2.4
Fourth line moving is a line that gives diviners trouble, as its meaning is not clear. Hilary in her new I Ching suggests that you "let go your requirements for how things (especially relationships) must be." "When you release your thumbs, you release your grip." The suggestion is that you are focused too intently on how parent/child relationships "ought" to be. That would be one interpretation of your reading.

I was thinking that 2nd line could be talking about squirelle and 4th about her mother - they both are or in need of releasing.