effect on relationship Hex 5.3 < 60

[ambika]

Hi I blocked my boy friend on facebook after a terrible fight (he deleted me and i blocked him later) but now i miss him terribly and want him back. I asked the IC

if i were to unblock X from facebook how would it effect our relationship?

and i got Hex 5.3 < 60

It means that i should wait and not unblock him. Could any one confirm?
secondly what does the oracle mean by too much restraint in Hex 60.

I would really appreciate help at this point.

Cheers.

 

[ambika]

and so i asked again
if i were to unblock X from facebook right now how would it effect me?

and i got Hex 32.4 <46

i am so confused!!!!!
please help me!

 

[icastes]

You must not be mired in doubt, says the third moving line of 5. Impulsiveness is also very bad. Patience and honesty is needed. 60 also says to be patient, if you want him back. If you unblock him now, all will go well overall, but not immediately. The fourth moving line of 32 means nothing is going to be accomplished. However, overall, with patience and honesty, you have a good chance in restoring this affair. It will take time. By the way, Facebook is a very bad way to keep a love affair going.

 

[jfas]

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[ambika]

Actually we are dependant on technology bcoz we live continents apart so facebook emails etc are very very very essential. but i understand what yu are trying to say anyways thanks for your help. you have made it very clear.

i think i am gonna wait (PATIENTLY or not )
lets c when we get back together by the Grace of God.

thank you for your help..you are an angel!!!

 

[ambika]

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I know!!!! but come on!!!
sometimes you just have to ask

 

[cristal]

Oh, I did same ...and then regreted my impulsivity, but (this is personally no Ichin), but again another impulsive thought to go back to him asking to renew the facebook friendship(undelete), I think will be equally wrong.

I think your reading (the Iching) says: (hexagram 5-60)
To Wait, and be optimistic but taking steps for good things to happen. To nourish yourself before taking any steps. To calm down. Stop whatever you are doing in regard to Facebook, and identify everything that should really be stopped (deleted) in your life, inside of you...Dont focus on Facebook, but in what you feel inside, the good and the less good and correct it and then wait..and then the undeleted, add moment will come back..

I pray but I don't think (will all respect) that we have to wait for God for things to become better, I think that God gave us the unlimited power to change things, and then the Iching guide us to it..Or is one of the guidance tools

 

[alyce21]

I think the answer is just reflecting your own worried state of mind. I think it's telling you you're waiting in the wrong way or the wrong place. Maybe you should not be waiting at all? I don't think unblocking him will do anything if he has already deleted you. 32.4 again echoes that unblocking him won't do anything, he's not in the field so to speak. It's sort of saying that you're going about this the wrong way, trying to fix it in the wrong way, looking in the wrong areas. If you want to try and mend things between you call him on the phone or email him, or if you can go and visit him in person.

 

[ambika]

Oh, I did same ...and then regreted my impulsivity, but (this is personally no Ichin), but again another impulsive thought to go back to him asking to renew the facebook friendship(undelete), I think will be equally wrong.

I think your reading (the Iching) says: (hexagram 5-60)
To Wait, and be optimistic but taking steps for good things to happen. To nourish yourself before taking any steps. To calm down. Stop whatever you are doing in regard to Facebook, and identify everything that should really be stopped (deleted) in your life, inside of you...Dont focus on Facebook, but in what you feel inside, the good and the less good and correct it and then wait..and then the undeleted, add moment will come back..

I pray but I don't think (will all respect) that we have to wait for God for things to become better, I think that God gave us the unlimited power to change things, and then the Iching guide us to it..Or is one of the guidance tools

thankyou it was really motivating...i WILL wait and be optimistic God bless you!

 

[ambika]

I think the answer is just reflecting your own worried state of mind. I think it's telling you you're waiting in the wrong way or the wrong place. Maybe you should not be waiting at all? I don't think unblocking him will do anything if he has already deleted you. 32.4 again echoes that unblocking him won't do anything, he's not in the field so to speak. It's sort of saying that you're going about this the wrong way, trying to fix it in the wrong way, looking in the wrong areas. If you want to try and mend things between you call him on the phone or email him, or if you can go and visit him in person.

u know that's the dilemma! i cant see him he lives a continent apart. unblocking him would probably not do anything u r right.
i think i'll wait and try to relax as much as i can