Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
THANK YOU Diamanda. You've absolutely nailed my true feelings on the matter. I've been working with R.L Wing which gives more of an optimistic perspective but in terms of what I feel to be the truth, this 50>61 is it. Whatever Wing says...You are bang on reflecting my current experience back at me. I am grateful for your intuitive and direct interpretation. You even used the term "virtual distraction" which are the exact words I used when I confronted him before it all fell down. Thank you. It's moved me from feeling grief and disempowerment to a sense of discernment about all of this. Still sad though, but must feel it and move through it. This chap was incredibly convincing and pressed all of my buttons in an overwhelming way.(used to be lots of 44s and 29s when we were involved.)I don't think he would relate to this portrait of events at all, at least not publically. His version is that I pushed beyond where I had the "right" to.....which is why I was turning 50>61 against myself as having done something wrong. Thanks for turning it around. It was not me that destroyed this.Hi Tanith,what now and how do I move through this/is there anything else i can do50.1.3.4.5 > 6150.1 someone gets a mistress50.3 but does not have sex with her50.4 and he messes up the whole thing50.5 so the mistress goes away61 protect your heart, hide your feelingsIn a nutshell it's exactly what you wrote in the title, "End of a love affair that never really started".It's not you who destroyed this. He obviously had no intention of getting together with you, because if he did have such an intention, nothing would stop him. It sounds like he just wanted a safe-distance virtual distraction. He ended it the first time, he ended it the second time, and if you let him he'll do the same again. I believe the advice is that now that he has messed up again, go away (50.5) and hide your feelings (61). Maybe this means that if you try to discuss anything with him, or keep contact, he'll just crush you again, so best to just leave it.
I don't believe this. He knows very well what he has done. He's gaslighting you, and I believe you know this already in your heart.he's in a a dream world where he thinks I overstepped a mark
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).