End of relationship?

[TKWLSY]

I sent a msg to my ex yesterday morning to apologize for any wrong doings on my part. However, I received no reply from her. Whatever things I need to convey, I have already written it in my msg. I felt a sense of relief as though a long term load has been offloaded from my shoulder. I thought perhaps it is time to move on and wake up from my dream of patching up with her. How could I possibly patch up with her if she has chosen to cut all forms of communication with me? I asked Yi: does this mark the end of my relationship with my ex? I received Hexagram 49.5>55. Thanks in advance for your input.

 

[RindaR]

If your apology was in response to inner growth and a realization of your part in what went wrong in the relationship, I am thinking this might mean you have undergone a real transformation. If so there will be a radical change in your ability to form a healthy relationship with others.

Whether or not she gives you a chance to demonstrate this new understanding will be up to her of course. If she does not, you have still gained something quite valuable which will be part of your next relationship. In either case you are fortunate!

If, however, this feeling of relief is simply due to finally expressing a sense of guilt, I suspect Yi might be telling you that it is definitely over.

It depends on the "identity" of the radical change: is it a real change within you, or is it an external change in the relationship?