End Relationship? 3.1.2.4 >47

[chris68]

I asked the Yi what would happen if I ended my relationship and received a #3.1.2.4 > 47 reading. I get a little confused as to whether this mostly refers to how it is now or how it would be after we end it, if we do. The growing aspect of #3 seems contradictory to the constricting/exhausting aspect of 47.

Should I consider the moving lines more than the relating hexagram? Does this mean the relationship is exhausting or I will be if I end it?
Please help be understand this better as it's a major decision in my life now and there are no huge issues that make it clear to me within the relationship. It's just been something I've been struggling with internally for some time now. More lifestyle differences, timing stuff than anything. I live with her and her 13 yr old son, we would probably remain friends afterward. That's why its so hard for me to understand the inner workings of whats going on. I appreciate all insight into this.

Thank you

 

[patro]

I asked the Yi what would happen if I ended my relationship and received a #3.1.2.4 > 47 ....
Thank you

to toss coins by using the "if" formula is a wrong way to investigate!
anyway...
it seams that you don't end your relation!
you want acting on impulse, your intention/reaction is not balanced!

 

[willowfox]

I asked the Yi what would happen if I ended my relationship and received a #3.1.2.4 > 47

What would happen is that you would get freedom from your now oppressive thoughts.

The lines all suggest that you make a break, as you cannot force yourself to be happy in what I would assume to be a personal "oppressive" situation. There must be something wrong otherwise you wouldn't have your doubts or even posed the above question.

Take time out from your cohabiting.

 

[pocossin]

What would happen if I ended my relationship?
3.1.2.4 >47

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Your sense of loss will be greater than you expect.

You have grown by participating in a family and are likely to find your new freedom oppressive. All change is stressful, even advantageous change, and you are considering radical life changes in both profession and family. You may have no alternative if your ideals and ambitions are not supported by your partner.