Feel like flipping out - hexagram 49 unchanging

[evas]

Hi yall,
One friend of mine has been getting on my nerve with his actions lately, and I have tried to stay calm so far, tolerant and kept on helping him in many ways ... But the sitution is becoming more and more unbearable for me and I feel like I need to speak up to him, how a feel bout it. I asked iching how shall I act in this sitution? I got answer 49 - Revolution. I checked several interpretations and I figured out, maybe I should wait a little more till the right time nd then speak up? Another thing holding me back from solving out this situation is that I am still doubting if my feelings are correct about the incorrect behaviour of this person ... Thank you very much for your help with interpreting my reading. E.:bows:

 

[kash]

It sounds like an apt reading for the situation you're in and I think you have a good understanding of it. Revolutions (such as speaking out / falling out with a friend) are big things so should only be undertaken when all other avenues have been exhausted. So you should find out all you can before making any moves you might regret, think long and hard about your position and then when you are ready within yourself, speak to your friend about his behaviour.

 

[ginnie]

You know that something must be done, but you are not sure of what action to take. It might be helpful to speak with other people about this and ask them what they would do or just to notice what other people do in similar situations. You need more input!