Feelings

[ruthee]

Hello,

I have known a man for the last four years
in a professional manner and now don't need
his professional skills anymore.
But I find myself really missing the contact
that we had and would really like to meet him
outside of the professional contact we had
Which I have been brought up to never do!

So I asked I ching
Please, could you give me insight on how to best approach
my relationship with X? Hex 17 unchanging

I also asked
Please, how should I proceed with this crush I have on X?
Hex 57 1,2> 37.
Please if anyone could help with an interperation of the hexs
I would be most grateful:bows:

In grace

 

[der_wanderer]

both hexagrams say pretty much the same - deal with the situation, dont push

there are circumstances and influences you don't know about - so beware

never the less, focus on your target as 37 indicates that there is a scenario for the two of you

 

[oponopono]

I find 17 pretty self-explanatory ... following... not necessarily him, but let yourself be taken by the situation, let yourself be lead by events - dont push it but also dont retreat! dont avoid him, dont chase him, just find the middle way and feel what each moment together or each possibility of contact asks for...

good luck
yoana

 

[ruthee]

Thanks der wanderer,
Is it line 2 of 57 that reprsents a block
to move forward?
As I feel I have hit a wall and that the time
is not right, but I should stay with what I feel in my
heart. Very unusual for me to go with my heart!

 

[der_wanderer]

57.2 says that you know what to do - but you are reconsidering the matter again and again...you are pissed on by the fact that its difficult, and your head is working against you

metaphorically speaking: you see a delicious fruit hanging on a tree, but you cant reach it - instead of trying harder to catch it, you say: oh doesn't look that good

got that line myself sometimes, when it really broke my nerves to wait ;-)

 

[ruthee]

Thanks Yoana,
I get that:bows:
Its appears now I will have to learn to balance
like a crane on a very skinny branch!:bag:
so I can keep all in check so I don't fall in love
and forget to use my head to control my feet
if I do fall. Would be dangerous to land on my head
Do you think I should buy a new flock?
Thank-you for taking the time to reply:bows:

 

[ruthee]

Thanks der wanderer
for your take on hex line
Yes, my heart has been awakened
but as yoana said maybe not for this
man.
I will stay with the feeling and see where
it takes me...