Finished here.

[willowfox]

After numerous, and what I perceive as continual attacks, I don't think it is in my best interest to continue on this site any longer.
As I told Hilary, I do these reads for free, with hardly ever a thank you but I do get plenty of criticism instead.
A certain reader here is always complaining, and now it has spread to a querent through her influence, so as you think after nearly 3,000 posts that I am mostly wrong then there is no point in carrying on.
Answering querents questions has been very interesting and fun for me but trying to put up with certain permanent members of this forum has been a real struggle that at times has made me very angry. I don't need the hassle anymore.
So, I now leave it to those experts to carry on if they can do it but I know that many querents questions will go unanswered.
I have another home, that is much more friendlier than this one has ever been or ever will be.

WF

 

[proserpine]

Willowfox from proserpine

Willow, I don't know what's been happening.I'm so sorry that it is though.You mean that folks here asked for answers and then didn't like what they got as per your interpretation?Since this is the first I've heard of it, I don't know if there's anything else to it, but hate to hear of anyone being scapegoated.Take care.

 

[enmedio de la tierra]

When a noble one needs to retire, he/she does it without anger (hex 33).

When someone proclaims that he/she is leaving, and came back less than 12 hours to continue the acusations, it seems like this is not a noble retirement but a tactic to gain sympathy and make people begging him/her to stay.

The Yijing says: If a man is agitated in mind, and his thoughts go hither and thither, only those friends on whom he fixes his conscious thoughts will follow.

 

[willowfox]

When a noble one needs to retire, he/she does it without anger (hex 33).

When someone proclaims that he/she is leaving, and came back less than 12 hours to continue the accusations, it seems like this is not a noble retirement but a tactic to gain sympathy and make people begging him/her to stay.

Yes, I am doing it out real anger, Mr.Worm, I have packed my backs but when people like you especially start the very holy nonsense then I feel obliged to retaliate. It is people like you who screw this site up, you come on here like you know something but you can never give proper answers to peoples questions, all you can do is give them vague quotations or whatever. Personally I don't like you, so keep your comments to yourself, and as for sympathy, I don't give a s*** anymore, as I don't want to have to put up with people such as yourself.

 

[enmedio de la tierra]

You came back before I posted anything about your issues.

 

[willowfox]

You came back before I posted anything in your issues.

Yes, you are right, Bamboo could not understand why I said what I said about the errant child over in readings, so I wanted to explain but not expand and neither to do anymore readings. Obviously, I still have a few loose ends to tie up.

 

[enmedio de la tierra]

Obviously... the ego is always such a strong tie

Well, we'll see if you are sincere about no more readings here.

Blessings

 

[willowfox]

Obviously... the ego is always such a strong tie

Obviously your ego is kind of big, like a puffer fish. All bloated and no substance!

 

[enmedio de la tierra]

I disagree... my ego is much bigger than a puffer fish. It is most like the Great Wall

However, I'm not the one leaving (well, almost leaving..some day?) because "I perceive continual attacks"

 

[enmedio de la tierra]

I don't want to increase your frustration. I'm done with this thread.

Have a good life... and see you soon in the Shared Readings Area

 

[Trojina]

Willow, I don't know what's been happening.I'm so sorry that it is though.You mean that folks here asked for answers and then didn't like what they got as per your interpretation?Since this is the first I've heard of it, I don't know if there's anything else to it, but hate to hear of anyone being scapegoated.Take care.

She is not being scapegoated and noone asked her to leave..see the "Lost my best friend..." thread in Shared Readings here http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?t=7780

Anyway its obvious shes going nowhere so don't worry

 

[hilary]

Hi WF,

Looks like things have moved on since your first post, so I don't know whether you've decided to leave. But anyway...

Doing readings can be tiring. Doing readings for free and not having them always accepted with gratitude and appreciation, even more so. Since you've reached the point where you're feeling under-appreciated and resentful, I definitely agree that this means you need to take a break. This is in your best interest, and also in the interest of the people you read for.

It's also true that your approach to divination isn't exactly in harmony with mine, and doesn't really represent what this site is about. But as my Mum-in-law frequently says, it'd be boring if we were all the same...

 

[titania]

When a noble one needs to retire, he/she does it without anger (hex 33).

True, but we all have to start from where we are, and I don't think any of us are 'noble' all the time. Where WillowFox is right now is in anger. She's wise enough to see that remaining would only create more conflicts and increase her anger, so she's withdrawing. Surely in a situation like this, retiring with anger is preferable to remaining with anger.

I hope she'll return eventually. For me, one of the things that that makes this site so valuable is the wide variety of perspectives. I don't always agree with WillowFox's interpretations and I don't always agree with yours or Trojan's, but I almost always learn something from what you each have to say.