from good to bad?

[landlady]

Hello

A friend has been upset with me for almost a year.

I tossed the coins and received hex.19 (Approach)
changing line: Fourth: Complete approach. No blame.

All this seems to be everything I've been waiting for, although the changing hexagram is
54 The Marrying Maiden, wich doesn't seem to be so good, in my opinion.

How is it possible for the first hexagram, so positive, to be transformed in something wich sounds quinte negative?

Thank you and have a nice day.

 

[yxeli]

Hey

I think its saying that this is a good thing that you guys are making up, and if you look at the fan yao of 54 ie; 54.4 i dont necessarily think its 'bad',i would say that its saying go with the time, not what you think is right time but when the time arises go with the flow.

9 at 4: The marrying maiden exceeds the allotted time. A late marriage at the right time.
Don’t do things when you ‘want’ or ‘ought’ to do them, but when those things or the time say it is the right moment. Because you will have success when it is THE right moment and not YOUR right moment.

hope this helps!

Yx

 

[landlady]

Thank you yxeli. Good help.