greetings (and good morning from usa) please advise

[clarionbodhi]

hello everyone,

i am recently new to this forum and am very grateful to hilary for creating such an excellent resource for divining and implementing the i ching - thank you so much hilary.

i have as of late submerged myself into the very deep waters of this amazing oracle. i first encountered the oracle approximately 20 years ago and although i found it remarkable at the time it isn't till now, with creation of this site as a facilitator, that i feel and know just what a noble and precious gift the i ching is.

please advise for those who wish to :bows:

i am at the very beginning of a relationship that seems to have hit a rough spell. so much so that i have considered leaving it but find it difficult due to how young the relationship is (not more than 2 months) and the potential that relationship holds for both of us.

i am not sure what happened but believe it may have been us both trying to be "safe" by not opening up too quickly thereby inadvertently giving that space over to doubt or suspicion - i don't know.

i woke up before dawn this morning and asked the oracle for advise regarding these two questions:

what does she want from me?

this yielded -

44.3 -- 6

and

what can i do to strengthen the relationship?

which yielded:

8.1.4 -- 17

i was and still am puzzled (especially by the first question in context of the second question).
does she want to punish me for something? for something she may have done? am i punishing myself? the language of this reading is ominous and seems to advocate -not- sticking around.

the second answer is compelling in so much as it seems to advocate not leaving? or is it saying find someone else i can trust? however the question i asked was "what can i do to strengthen the relationship.

here are the links:

http://eclecticenergies.com/iching/consultation.php?lns=879777
http://eclecticenergies.com/iching/consultation.php?lns=688678



please advise,

thank you,

~m

:bows:

 

[willowfox]

what does she want from me? 44.3 -- 6

It appears that at the beginning she really fancied you and was eager to give the relationship a try but now she is no longer sure about this relationship, perhaps she is finally realizing that this is not right for her and so this has lead to the conflict.

what can i do to strengthen the relationship? 8.1.4 -- 17

 

[clarionbodhi]

what does she want from me? 44.3 -- 6

It appears that at the beginning she really fancied you and was eager to give the relationship a try but now she is no longer sure about this relationship, perhaps she is finally realizing that this is not right for her and so this has lead to the conflict.

what can i do to strengthen the relationship? 8.1.4 -- 17

and the second reading?

 

[willowfox]

and the second reading?

I think the first reading sums the situation up precisely, don't you? Therefore, the second reading enters the realms of fantasy.

 

[willowfox]

I liked your first name much better than the second one you have chosen.