Clarity,
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London.
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United Kingdom
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28.5 That darned older woman line. Ya, ya, ya, withered poplar that flowers only exhausts its energies. Both J and I are physically and emotionally burned out but what does that, have to do with the legal stuff? Will it all just settle down? Blow over?
I always considered the second hexagram the real answer to the query and the changing lines what you have to go through to get there. But at online clarity, I find a much more sophisticated way of looking at this. I bought Hillary’s book at Amazon but don’t expect it until next week. Any help you can give with this mess will be appreciated indeed. Thanks.
Creating problems may be core question, trojan. I think that initially J thought that UG didn't realize that his activities could be heard downstairs. As matters escalated, J even told UG that he could assist him in getting help for his problem. Eventually the antlers-on-the-hilltop behavior began. Probably a thousand people within ten miles love J for saving them and/or their children from addiction. Whenever we go out, we run into his ex-patients, who want to stop and talk. As tired as he is, he still spent five hours last weekend --without pay--teaching CPS volunteers how to work with alcohol addiction in domestic violence situations. A really dedicated guy. But physically, he looks like an ex-football player, has a gravelly voice and a brusque Down East manner. So it's pretty easy to misinterpret him. (We live in the Pacific NW.)Given that he knew their issues it doesn't sound a great idea to be putting letters under their door and confronting them whilst formally complaining at the same time.....does it ? I mean I think it might have been better to complain formally without confronting them because now they will know who complained, be more belligerant ...and did he ever think they were going to be reasonable and comply ?
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I am sympathetic to noise issues....but I wonder if he really has handled this intelligently ? Being a therapist for 20 years gives him no authority over these people does it nor really inform how he's treating them. I feel he may have just helped to create more of a problem for himself.
that doesn't answer you question....of how it will work out ? I find the answer hard to apply. "Its all too much" in 28 of course...but you have many lines. 28.3 can't cope with the pressure 28.4 can. 28.1 is very careful in handling things and i don't think he has been....28.5 might suggest the issue resolves itself but I am not sure about that.
I'm stuck I look to the change pattern. Well the yang change pattern is 49 so the whole situation has come about through some fundamental change, possibly the move itself of course.
yin change pattern , the way through and beyond the situation is hexagram 4, not knowing....and actually my impression of the answer is that this cannot be known just yet. It's like he has to live it as it happens....and its happening somewhat 'on the edge'...it looks complicated to me and I wouldn't expect immediate or easy resolution here.
Because 28ing is oft by it's nature something you fundamentally do alone my sense is this really is his problem and he is going to have to deal with it as that. It's not yours.
Anyway that doesn't answer you question....of how it will work out ? I find the answer hard to apply. "Its all too much" in 28 of course...but you have many lines. 28.3 can't cope with the pressure 28.4 can. 28.1 is very careful in handling things and i don't think he has been....28.5 might suggest the issue resolves itself but I am not sure about that.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).