Have i sabotoged my friendship with h?

[amy luisa]

WELL, I THINK THAT HE IS ANGRY THAT I DID NOT MEET HIM RIGHT AWAY, I SENSED THIS BY HIS LAST TEXT SAYING THAT HE TOO, WAS GOING OUT. I THINK HE FEELS THAT I HAVE OTHER BOYFREINDS AROUND TOWN. IT WAS VERY MISLEADING ALSO FOR ME AND I THINK WE ARE BOTH SCARED. I HAVE NOT HEARD FROM HIM AFTER HIS LAST CALL, HE SOUNDED DISTANT, LIKE HE WAS TRYING TO Understand me and was not reading me correctly, same here also.

i drew this Hexagram

Hexagram 60, Measuring

The lines change at 2 (red)
line 4 (red broken)
line 5 (red solid)

CHANGING OVER TO

Hexagram 51, Shock

More like dissapointment as i had my heart in this (well, sort of)

i went out and bought an outfit and was going to see him (I agreed) this saturday for a light date.

did i do something to ruin this friendship?

Please advise

 

[willowfox]

Hex 60.2,4,5 > Hex 51

Line 60.2 Yes, you did indeed make a mistake, as this line says staying home instead of going to meet him will cause you misfortune. You should have gone.

Oh! Well, just calm down now and wait for a call from him.

 

[amy luisa]

thank you willow...you are right

i sensed this. he probably thinks that i met with another guy. but i did not. i was just caught off guard by the meeting happening so soon. i even sent him an email asking if next saturday was still on.

should i cast a new hexagram willow, to see if this will come threw for me. i am not calling him.

it was no stupid of me though, i wanted to get ready proper. i would of met him and if was that interested, he would not let me go so easily. he would of been a proper gentleman and understood and let me be comfortable about when we could do this date. i would of just needed 1 week. i mean, what the hell is up with this/ he seems like a great guy...did i ruin this?

should i cast a new hexagram....

i have never cried over anyone but E! this bites!

please advise if i should ask, will H call me again? or what should i know about this situation? or Will this friendship with H open?



thank you:bows:

 

[willowfox]

Don't worry you are stressing yourself out over a silly mistake. You have to realize that he maybe the sort of guy who wants immediate action in everything, especially with people at work and this also comes out in his social activities as well. Therefore he cannot understand why a woman needs 3 hours to get ready for a date.

Just be patient and wait for his call, which will come sooner than later.

 

[amy luisa]

thank you Willow

i guess you know then. LOLOL no need to recast.

Its just so strange though, just like that, we hit it off in several ways, i was not expecting him to ask me out asap! He is the same age as E but this guy is in the same town as i am - Really intriguing and intelligent man. we talked for a long time about our heritage and where we grew up and OMG would my family back home be SOOOO HAPPY that i got myself a good old Puerto Rican guy! They never knew the intensity of my friendship with E - they just knew that we connected again as they knew E when he was a young boy from the neighborhood.

This H guy, well, i was all ready for a phone call, but he is not calling me. He is kind of leaving me "hanging" and "Wondering" that is why i felt alittle strange...Alittle mind you. this guy is not all known to me to get all WORKED UP, i was just curious.

I will be ready for his call and will play it cool. I know about guys like this one.
But what a silly way to act. i guess on both our parts.

As you say, he will call and i guess, i will just confirm our date for saturday!

 

[gato]

there's nothing about sabotage, but getting out and acting normal will get you through this.

 

[amy luisa]

hi and thank you

gato - can you please interpret my Hex in your way please?
i want to get also you opinion.

thank you for reading my post.:bows: