Help with 46, big decision

[primordial]

Hello Folks.
I am new to posting here ,but have enjoyed the forum for awhile . I am really amazed at the breadth of knowledge and insight that you all contribute.
Here goes:
Background-I have been in a long term relationship for 10 years, lots of ups and downs. This winter I've been feeling the need to commit to marriage or let it go. This decision has been really hard as the woman is my best friend and most trusted ally, but the romantic feeling and passion have not been there for awhile no matter what each of us has tried.

My Question:
How can I overcome my confusion about breaking up/staying with her.

I received hexagram 46.1.5 changing to 5.
Which seems to be saying keep trying to clear the confusion.Keep the goal of clearing in mind, but be ok with advancing in small steps and possibly waiting more for surety. I feel trying and waiting is what I have been doing a lot of, so this advice seems to suggest staying the course for now.
Any insight would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks to all, this forum is a great resource!

 

[willowfox]

The lines suggest that you are meant to be together, so a need for patience and perseverance are needed in order to achieve what needs to be achieved, it calls for very slow but steady progress, so don't try and rush this relationship.

 

[primordial]

Thank You Willowfox,
I felt the same , but thats been my go-to approach all along, and as such I felt I might be blind to other new info.I guess I've been thinking about it so much that I feel I've muddied my sense of intuition.