Help with Hexagram 32.1.5.6 changing to 1

[angel01]

Dear Member of the I Ching Community,

I am a new member and decided to join to this community as I have found many shared readings very helpful in interpreting hexagrams.

I desperately need some help in interpreting the resulting hexagrams about a particular question I asked. I am in relationship with someone for more than a year and lots of complicated problems occured in our relationship, also because of some external influences. Although I do not want to, I am thinking to end this relationship in favour of both of us.

For this reason, my question was: "Should I end my relationship with him now?"
The result is: Hexagram 32, lines 1, 5 and 6 changing to Hexagram 1.

I will really appreciate if you please share your insights with me.

Thanks so much in advance,
angel01.

 

[kash]

It seems it is advising you not to end it at this point. The first line warns about taking hasty action to secure a future, without being aware of the whole picture.

The top line warns against being overly restless, I think. The 5th line I've had a few times and I think it talks about the need to adapt to the situation at hand, rather than sticking to tradition.
I think the resulting hexagram is showing your wish to be active in fixing the situation.

Maybe you should ask how best to handle this relationship or what you could do to make things better.

 

[mirian]

Dear angel01,

Welcome. In my view, all your lines are pointing to the same direction: there is too much expectation to create too much too soon. The hexagram itself is related to conditions that are consistent, that have depth and as such are bound to last. But creating lasting conditions requires time and scope to allow things to grow and consolidate. However, here the reading is showing someone whose actions and/or expectations are having the opposite effect. There is too much haste and pressure, which does not seem to work in this particular relationship. My impression is that the relationship needs a bit of breathing space, more freedom, less time frame, to consolidate in its own time.

Hope that helps a bit :bows:

 

[angel01]

I thank you both (mirian and kash) for your wonderful insight! I now understood the message here and you are both right. I will try to evaluate the situation of my relationship and my reaction to it from a wider perspective and will further think about it.

Thank you so so much!
Best regards,
angel01.