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Neither 13, nor 13.5, nor 30 contain any characters which mean or denote heart or heart connection.a connection on the heart level that exists from the beginning
Neither 13, nor 13.5, nor 30 contain any characters which mean or denote heart or heart connection.
Well I'm not sure what sort of connection this is, sounds more like a disconnection. You seem to want to eventually be together as a couple, but he doesn't sound to want the same. For 3 years consistently this is not happening, even when you're both free. You said that this is painful to you, and that his presence makes you feel shy and vulnerable.
How is this situation a 'connection', and how is it good for you?
And also, how did you phrase your question?
I didn't reach this conclusion by any words of yours, just from the overall story. It's obvious you really like this guy and given the opportunity would be with him, and I gather he already knows that (especially because you feel shy around him, a clear sign we fancy someone). And yet he hasn't acted, so because of that I guessed that he's not after a relationship. Men usually are not shy at all about going after a woman they want. My apologies if I'm way off the mark and this doesn't apply in this case.I don't think you can describe the dynamics between us with "you want and he doesn't." And I also don't know from which words of mine in this thread you take this insight.
I don't quite understand what you mean here. Resolved how? Some situations never get closure, if that's what you mean. Or perhaps you could take the first step and speak with him, since it matters so much to you.It is just that I wished the situation between us would be finally resolved
That's very true. I hope that you both solve your inhibitions and obstacles and you get the resolution you want.I had to learn that being aloof and anxious is fatal in relationships
Usually, Hex 13.5 has always meant reconciliation after a fight for me. Or as Trojina once wrote somewhere, the sympathetic agreement to go separate ways.
But one story I go through is totally different from my other experiences with 13.5. There's one man in my life who means a lot to me, for our 'relationship' I even threw 13.5 three times in a row when we got to know each other, which I interpreted in such a way that it would go well between us eventually somehow. But that hasn't happened yet, not even after 3 years. I wonder why Yi gave me this clearly painful but still hopeful line several times in a row when we first met, if absolutely nothing ever should come out of it. Not even a proper farewell and mutual understanding, but just blockages. At the beginning we were both not free but now we are, still there are strange obstacles blocking our connection in every way. Not even as friends we found together till now. Alone this would make me happy. Now I haven't talked to him for about nine months and when we accidently meet each other we both can't even really look each other in the eyes. It is ridicoulus but his presence makes me feel so shy and vulnerable.
I wonder if I just have to be more patient (not in a sense that I am waiting for him, I always try to enjoy this short life we have as much as possible) or if I let myself totally be led on the wrong track. I am happy about every thought of you about Hex 13.5.
I didn't reach this conclusion by any words of yours, just from the overall story. It's obvious you really like this guy and given the opportunity would be with him, and I gather he already knows that (especially because you feel shy around him, a clear sign we fancy someone). And yet he hasn't acted, so because of that I guessed that he's not after a relationship. Men usually are not shy at all about going after a woman they want. My apologies if I'm way off the mark and this doesn't apply in this case.
I don't quite understand what you mean here. Resolved how? Some situations never get closure, if that's what you mean. Or perhaps you could take the first step and speak with him, since it matters so much to you.
I hope that you both solve your inhibitions and obstacles and you get the resolution you want.
Strange reading really....but this isn't the first time 13.5 has indicated an amicable parting for me. It has this feel of 'well we kind of tried, it wasn't going to work but it was good to be with you and all the best' kind of thing, without regrets....with both of us still surveying the territory to be explored....like friendly explorers exploring seperately we thought we might go up a mountain together since we both liked mountains and then decided to go up seperate mountains (shook hands, no hard feelings 13.5) and off we went out from the gate/foot of the mountain (13.6)
This is now so many years ago -- did it remain at that "amicable parting" or did you resume these relationships at a later point somehow?
I hope it is okay, that I quoted you here and not in the original thread? If not then I am going to delete it of course.
Hello Equinox, I think it will be useful if I share my experience about this line.
I had to travel to meet my lover. When I arrived at the airport they informed me that our suitcases was left behind and We had to wait 2 days till we had our suitcases. I had to wait to see him (no clothes to wear for our date) till the day that I had my suitcase and I was really crying because I couldn't meet him. Finally, we met and we were so so happy together but I had to left again. The story continues...
Hope it helps.
Yes, it helps. This is a cute story -- thank's lot for sharing!
So are you still together now?
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).