Hex. 19 changing to 11

[afresca]

I asked the question: "Shall I send him a Birthday card?"

To my ex boyfriend who left me psychomanipulated by a guru of one of the sects. I tried to keep in touch with him but he started to be agnorant, ignorant and "love bombing" which was like a new kind of speech to me...

Whilst being in the cult he sent me a card to my birthday and to Valentine's day (!) but as I spoke with him he did not want to get back to me. He says he is happy to live where he is (it is quite a dangerous cult).

I do not know what to do. Just wanted to "forget" about his birthday to break up completely but now I got this message 19->11.

What is it suppose to mean? I am a new one and does not know how to deal with the oracle readings.

Could you help me with the interpretation? Thanks.

 

[chingching]

19.3
dont send the birthday card

its quite clear

Six in the third place means:
Comfortable approach.
Nothing that would further.
If one is induced to grieve over it,
One becomes free of blame.

Things are going well for a man: he achieves power and influence. But in this lies the danger he may relax, and confident of his position, allow the easygoing, careless mood to show itself in his dealings with other people, This woud inevitably be harmful. But there is possibility of a change of mood. If he regrets his mistaken attitude and feels the responcibility of an influential position he frees himself from faults.
-Wilhelm

 

[afresca]

Thank you chingching!

And what about: "But there is possibility of a change of mood. If he regrets his mistaken attitude and feels the responcibility of an influential position he frees himself from faults."

?

 

[afresca]

I asked " is he going to wake up and get out of this sect?"

and received: 13 changing to 20

Could you help me please just once more - is it a positive reading? Thanks

 

[chingching]

Thank you chingching!

And what about: "But there is possibility of a change of mood. If he regrets his mistaken attitude and feels the responcibility of an influential position he frees himself from faults."

?

I think that has to do with the fact that you weren't going to send him any correspondance then you questioned yourself (because its his birthday and its most ofetn polite to recognise this) and changed your mood when you though 19 > 11 menat go ahead send a birthday message. But that change was regretable, as noted in your confusion and subsequent posting in here for clarification, and in grasping the meaning of your reading you free yourself from fault.

you gots to go with your guts, not what you think is nice or kind. Birthday wishes are a nicety but not a necessity.

 

[afresca]

Thanks