Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
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It seems to me that at least some of 'what will happen' is up to you two: if you both decide to meet, then you'll meet - that's what will 'happen' to you. And if you decide to not meet ...?What will happen with X and me in the next few days? 19 us.
That's a good point. I'm trying to be careful with my questions, but I've always wandered what if I ask one thing but in the back of my mind is a wider situation (question)... Does Yi know what I'm aiming at even if I'm not fully aware?In any case, your question was not about the overall prospects, but only about the next few days.
In conclusion, in the next few days let him be the one to approach, and keep a watchful eye. If he deviates from propriety, make sure to tell him to return to propriety.
19. Image:
Approach the meeting as a responsible adult.
- Hilary
I know I sound childish with the "are we there yet?" type of question, but I let myself go while asking, because if it's something I care about, what's the point in hiding it from Yi (if there's even any hiding possible). We would be exploring "the thing" but we already discussed the "relationship department" so there are some expectations.Yeah, you aren't asking for anything, you're not offering anything, you're simply meeting someone with an open mind. Jumping the gun, trying to make this into something rather than just using it as an opportunity to get to know each other better would be a mistake. After all, if you realize the two or you aren't suitable it may be that he has a friend...
Again, I agree - trying not to expect just one thing.As to relationship potential, 19 reads, "Until the eighth moon, disastrous." For me this is 'don't count your chickens before they hatch' advice. You need to actually meet first, and then let the relationship grow - in the same way you can't harvest rice a month after you've plant it. You need to wait until it grows and matures (and you need to weed it, care for it ....) and then - in/around the eight month - you get rice to harvest.
I only see it as advice to let things 'ripen' in their own time. For me, what's disastrous here is not giving yourself enought time for the crop (relationship) to mature.But I'm still confused with "the warning". Can the metaphor of harvest be disastrous?
So you have already told each other that you are both after a long-term relationship?we already discussed the "relationship department" so there are some expectations
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).