Hex 19 Unchanging - will he come back if I move on with my life?

[strawberry_blood]

Hey guys,

A very trivial question while we have genocide happening in Ukraine (which my family are countering best we can at least through donations and helping refugees over here in the UK).

Anyways, a personal issue still lingers a couple of years on, so I have asked the Yi the question stated in the message title, once I had felt I was at peace with the current decisions regarding all other aspects of my life (by the way, I was born in Russia and am 100% against this slaughter of the Ukrainian nation which was once called our sister nation). But - fewer words, more actions.

So the question was about a man I loved. Since 24/02/2022 everything has changed for us including the priorities and people we call friends - however, I found I still had to ask about him (he is Iraqi so in no way involved).

Got hex 19 unchanging, have mixed feelings about it. To me looks like he will actually come back, but he will see I have changed a lot and basically will no longer be as pliable as I had been (the war has taught us to define boundaries and stand up for them). I am guessing the Yi is telling me this will no longer be viable due to the changes in my character, but there will be contact from his side. And yes, contact from my side is not an option, as the last message between us was me wishing him a happy birthday 1.5 years ago.

Thank you for sharing your thoughts,

Bright blessings!

 

[my_key]

Hi strawberry_blood
You seem to have asked two questions here. "Will he come back?" and "If I move on with my life?". This reading seems to direct itself more to the second.

If you move on with your life something great and powerful will come into it. Initially things may be difficult and you are best advised to approach these next few months without expectations, Walk modestly in life, and if you stay alert and reflective to how life unfolds for you during this time you will be better positioned to embrace new ways in which to live.

... or it might have a different meaning for you.

Good Luck

 

[strawberry_blood]

Hi strawberry_blood
You seem to have asked two questions here. "Will he come back?" and "If I move on with my life?". This reading seems to direct itself more to the second.

If you move on with your life something great and powerful will come into it. Initially things may be difficult and you are best advised to approach these next few months without expectations, Walk modestly in life, and if you stay alert and reflective to how life unfolds for you during this time you will be better positioned to embrace new ways in which to live.

... or it might have a different meaning for you.

Good Luck

Thank you for your input, @my_key, it is much appreciated.

The reason for phrasing the question like this is that I was once advised to try and move on, then he will come back eventually (energy laws, whatever). We never heard a firm "no" on him coming back, but it does look like a lot more personality forging needs to happen for me before then.

Since the start of the Russian invasion of Ukraine nothing has been the same for us, we had lost a lot of friends due to their fascist views, also we have solidified some friendships with like-minded people, including some Ukrainians who are magnanimous enough to accept not all Russians are Nazis.

So I'm not the same girl as I had been 2 years ago, and moving on seems more feasible. I hope I will meet him again, but this is no longer the main focus of my life. Stopping the war and helping those affected is.

Thank you once again!

 

[professionalsky3]

Hex 19 is when the time is ripe to achieve what you want. The misfortune in the 8th month in my understanding is when the doors are temporarily closed mainly because you haven't taken the opportunity that presented itself to you. Go ahead and talk to him without expecting any specific response. Just do it if you feel like it.