Hex 41.3 means there is another a person involved?

[star123]

I recently came to the realization of how unhealthy my 9 months on and off relationship is. He would come to me and then disappear for weeks, so I decide to cut my emotion off and walk away. Out of curiosity I asked Iching 'what to expect between me and X in the near future?' I received hex 41.3.

I always have the suspicion that he may has someone else because of how he kept showing up and then disappearing for weeks. I found flirtous message on his social media with other girls. However I can not confirm. In addition, there are some confusions between the answer and my question.. My best guess is I should expect myself walk away from a triangle relationship which I've already walked away?

 

[taoscopy]

41.3 is not easy to interpret at all!

Anyways I can try:

1) he comes to you
2) he disappears
3) you walked away

So the answer is that one of those three has to go. Either you let him come and go or you drop the relationship, your call. He can also choose to stop coming to you or stop disappearing.

41 - Remove

One loses their support and abandons. Accepting the constraints will arouse sympathy.

3 - In a trio, one goes away.
In the making
26 - Checking

See that everything is alright. In this way one will find the invisible problems.

 

[Endless]

Star, I got this one just yesterday. The line talks about a threesome, we donot know of which kind, its up to you to determine but, as I found in another thread, the advice could be to trascend those emotions and go your own way alone. I always liked the imagen in hex41, btw. Lake below and mountain above is a nice place, a nice view to calm our nerves while quiting what drain us. Isnt it?

 

[star123]

Thank you taoscopy and Endless!

I guess I shouldn't have asked the first question in the first place and got myself all anxious after I decided to walk away from this person. I asked iching for clarification today 'What's X's relationship status right now?' and I received Hex 51.2 changing to Hex 54. It doesn't sound like iching answered my question directly. It just brings more confusions at this point.

 

[taoscopy]

'What's X's relationship status right now?' and I received Hex 51.2 changing to Hex 54. It doesn't sound like iching answered my question directly. It just brings more confusions at this point.

I find that it is a very clear answer, he's not willing to repair your relationship:

51 - Shock

Something is coming which enables the identification of a problem.

2 - One does not seek what they have lost.
In the making
54 - Assistance

Protect one's interests by making oneself useful.

 

[star123]

Thank you again for your help, taoscopy. However, if there is another person then could hex 51.2 be relationship status between him and that person? Even though I still don't think Iching answered his relationship status directly with hex 51.2.

'What's X's relationship status right now?' and I received Hex 51.2 changing to Hex 54. It doesn't sound like iching answered my question directly. It just brings more confusions at this point.

I find that it is a very clear answer, he's not willing to repair your relationship: