hex 53.5 Please help!!!!

[Valeria]

Hi!
Do you have experiences with line 5 of hex. 53?!
Is bad for a future relationship? This line is about problems and a long period but the end seems good...

 

[mezzamare]

Hi Valeria,

Since 53 is all about making progress slowly and gradually, I think the overall hex is suggesting patience, taking a longer view.

The changing line insinuates that someone's perception might not match up with another person's reality in this relationship. As if someone is either misunderstanding things, or feeling misunderstood.

53.5 relates to 52, Mountain, which encourages clear thinking. Maybe someone needs to re-examine their conceptions, expectations or judgments in the relationship in order to foster the progress which is possible.

Just my thoughts.

 

[newlife123]

It means to give that person sometime too cool down and star being more agreeable for their sake for now until they are ready to understand your outlook. DO NOT force your ego on them right now.

 

[Valeria]

Thank you so much for your thoughts!
This line has been litteral for me cause there have been some misunderstandings between us! ...maybe I stayed a little bit on my own because I'm right, but now I want to be more patient ...
because now we're apart and don't talk and I had this answer from i ching 4 months ago...the situation is still the same ...

 

[newlife123]

Do a new reading and don't ask a yes or no question.

 

[Valeria]

I did it .... 63.2.5 ...what do you think ? Thank you Newlife123

 

[Valeria]

Hi Valeria,

Since 53 is all about making progress slowly and gradually, I think the overall hex is suggesting patience, taking a longer view.

The changing line insinuates that someone's perception might not match up with another person's reality in this relationship. As if someone is either misunderstanding things, or feeling misunderstood.

53.5 relates to 52, Mountain, which encourages clear thinking. Maybe someone needs to re-examine their conceptions, expectations or judgments in the relationship in order to foster the progress which is possible.

Just my thoughts.

Thank you, mezzamare ! You're right. Now I feel misunderstood but I have also to change a bit my judgments

 

[newlife123]

I did it .... 63.2.5 ...what do you think ? Thank you Newlife123

to me it means that you are high on your knew understanding of patience and will try your best to be slow and wise but then you will become impatient and mess things up by coming on to strong and perhaps too soon. Watch out.

I would never tell a girl that she needs another man because women can get men to easily. All you have to be is female. But getting the right man and being the right woman yourself is the key.

 

[Valeria]

but in the line 2 'something' come back after "7 days" ...I saw this as a positive thing ...do you think I should stop thinking about him??

 

[newlife123]

Please don't think of a dancing pink elephant.

To stop try to stop thinking something is to be obsessed with that thing. Think about other things.

 

[Valeria]

Ok...Thank you!

 

[mezzamare]

but in the line 2 'something' come back after "7 days" ...I saw this as a positive thing ...do you think I should stop thinking about him??

My opinion is that the line suggests not running after things that aren't necessarily meant to be yours. Kind of like that saying about letting go of the things you love; if they don't come back to you, they were never truly yours to start with.

 

[Valeria]

Yes ...is true!!! I agree
I saw this line as positive because there is almost a chance that something can really come back...
There are other lines in i ching that seem negative...but this one doesn't seem so bad...
Why is written 'after 7 days comes back' if there's not a chance?

 

[newlife123]

Like something long enough and you won't like it anymore.

 

[em ching]

What happened?