Hex 60.5> 19

[mousse]

Hello all,

I've been dating this guy for a while, I like him but I am not passionally in love with him. He is nice, smart, funny. I keep wondering if my feelings will change for something deeper or not. I have a lot of questions in my mind now and one of them was:

What should I do about my relationship with him?

I received hex.60.5 > 19. I read a few threads and the note by Hillary in the hexagram section (thank you Hillary ).

She wrote: In relationship readings, Hexagram 60 is still about setting ground rules: clarifying expectations, making sure you both mean the same thing by the same words, and simply that you understand one another. And once again, this is not optional: you can't assume the other person will just know these things if they're not put into words.


So with hex.60 the IC is saying to me that you should address that with him and probably talk about future, my feelings, his, how he sees our relationship and so on. This would be a start and more work is to be done (hex.19). Is the IC telling me also to do that at my own pace? The IC is totally right by the way...we need to talk .

Is hex.19 good omen?

I'd be happy to have your insights. I thank you very much,

Mousse

 

[willowfox]

Your answer suggests, not to expect too much out of this relationship for the moment, it seems that you want the entree and main meal all at the same time, slow down and eat your meal slowly, that way you will enjoy it more. Then the flowers will eventually blossom for you.

 

[mousse]

Good morning Willowfox. I thank you very much for your answer. The IC is quite right on a few things. I've been not expecting too much of this relationship so far. However, some things have changed in the past few weeks and I became a bit...impatient sometimes and even worried. I'll try to enjoy things slowly and not expect too much. We'll see what the future has in store for me

Thanks again,

Mousse