Hexagram 19 into 49, with specifically lines 2, 3, 4, 5

[Tinetile]

Hi! My question was about what attitude should I have towards a former lover with whom I began to meet again...Could you help me with the interpretation? I don't understand what should I do with this situation....about him uch:
Thx

 

[Tim K]

I think the circumstances have changed since your last affair [49]. This relationship won't last very long I guess [19, evil by 8th month].
Either You or Him, or both, have learned their lessons[49, opposite of 4] and now are a changed person, and this will impact the attractiveness of this union.

So keep that in mind, that should be your attitude.

 

[Tinetile]

Thanks. ..but I am still confused about the interpretation...
I don't know....maybe I want more and it's difficult for me to see the full picture

 

[diamanda]

what attitude should I have towards a former lover with whom I began to meet again
19.2.3.4.5 > 49

19.2 = you've been meeting again
19.3 = stop being so sweet with him
19.4 = aim for a proper relationship with him
19.5 = be clever
49 = do things differently this time, and keep in mind you're not the only one in his life

Looks like it will be a struggle to get anything more from him than just being lovers.
If that's what you want (i.e. something more from him), you'll have to act strategically, not emotionally.

 

[Tim K]

What I meant was if you think you will have a good time with him judging from your previous experience, it probably won't be the case this time. Something has changed, after a while you'll probably recognize the difference and the appeal of this relationship will be lost.

 

[Tinetile]

Thanks! I don't know what it's the best interpretation but I will see what it's happening

 

[Tinetile]

Your interpretation was correct. exactly so it was happened.
thank you

I think the feedback is good.