Hexagram 2.2 as advice how to inspire sexual/romantic feelings to a SP

[flow111]

Hello!

I asked the ICHING for an advice. I have met a special someone with whom both my instincts and his sporadic actions suggest that there is something more than a pure platonic friendship.

However when I mentioned it he said that he sees me as a friend. I had a lot of male friends in my life and I know when there is zero chemistry/attraction but this is not the case.

As far as I know he doesn't have any other serious commitments, he definitely likes females - we met through a dating app - and he is super cute and nice person.

So I dared to ask ICHING how I can inspire sexual/romantic feelings to him? I know that somewhere there , something is boiling definitely. After he declared he sees me as friend, we met again and I was super cool and friendly, none flirty vibes from me, ready to hangout and cultivate our friendship with no other fuss but I felt he was still "playing" & flirting with me - he got even a bit jealous when I talked with other guys. He didn't say anything or openly revealed it but my side eyesight spotted him, starring and changing facial expression hahah

Is ICHING suggesting me I stay in my feminine accepting energy? No further action just be passive and accepting like Earth? What about "revealing the truth" ? What about the relating 7 - army and soldier of love idea? I read about revealing truth about this line. Any ideas, suggestion, comments would be more than welcome.

Thank you!

 

[moss elk]

I stay in my feminine accepting energy? No further action just be passive and accepting like Earth?

Um, the earth IS NOT passive. Nor need you be.
It's supportive and attractive and accepting.
The distinction is subtle but important.

Think of Polarity: + or -

The Earth has gravity which attracts and pulls.
Females have charms that attract.
Just like - polarity does.

Males generally push.
Like "+" polarity does.

I hope that is somewhat helpful.

 

[flow111]

Um, the earth IS NOT passive. Nor need you be.
It's supportive and attractive and accepting.
The distinction is subtle but important.

Think of Polarity: + or -

The Earth has gravity which attracts and pulls.
Females have charms that attract.
Just like - polarity does.

Males generally push.
Like "+" polarity does.

I hope that is somewhat helpful.

Haha you are so right! It is really helpful! Thank you!

Support attract and pull - in a sense exactly what I want to do - feels the most natural to me, especially when I am romantically interested to someone!

In James Lecce website I read about 2.2 - square earth occupying space firmly - any insight regarding that? I view as staying firmly in his life and maybe being in that energy of supporting, attracting and pulling ...