Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
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Hi urbansugar,
Your best approach to Luca: 4.1.2.6 > 24
Stop trying to restrict him and admonish him. Accept his immaturity. And defend yourself every time his stupidities are harming you. And finally, pretend you don't care much, that you're super easy-going.
Hello there, thank you so much. We have been dating since last June, and we kept it casual as I was just moving back to Italy from San Francisco after living there for 8 years. Then this January I started a new consulting job in Milano where I have to be there 3 times a week and the rest of the week I am south where Luca lives. I feel I am his girlfriend right now and I would like to tell him, although he keeps saying we are “friends” we act as a couple... I don’t know if should I wait a bit to tell him or go for it. He doesn’t like me be in Milano but it’s just for 3 days a week and money is good .Hexagram 4 describes someone very new to a situation so whether your friend is young or old recognize that all this is very new to them. Maybe you have only known each other for a short time or maybe one or both of you have little or limited experience with relationships.
The individual lines give further insight:
4.1 One or both of you has been holding back, maybe wanting more guarantees before getting closer. No more is to be learned now holding back and studying the situation. It's time to take a risk.
4.2 This is a very positive line reassuring you that you have enough social skills to be able to interact with this person without going too far out on a limb. (Perhaps straighten ties with co-workers or other friends around you at this time so if you say hello to Luca it won't stand out). Be yourself.
4.6 Do not let this interest distract you from your primal purpose. Rather let it inspire you.
24. Return. Going back to where we felt clear and confident. Have you felt you've already gone too far out with this friendship? Maybe advice to pull back, let there be some space between you, like maybe you need to be able to have a fresh start.
Another possibility could be this attraction is a Return for you to repeat an old pattern. Does this situation remind you of similar situations you've been through in the past? How did they work out? Do you wish you'd done something differently? Now's your chance!
There seems to be an emphasis on holding back in these hexagrams. I don't know if that is you being overly reserved or maybe the situation requires holding back now but there seems to be some frustration or limitations around this. I'm not sure if it's coming from you or the situation itself. Anyway, it does appear that there is something happening here - be alert to energy pulses between you - yet at the same time don't get distracted from completing your real world concrete obligations, don't become obsessed!
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).