Hexagram 41 line 6 to 19 - Relationship

[carpena]

Hi, I was wondering if anyone could give some feedback on 41 - Decrease line 6 changing to 19 - Advance.

My 10 months relationship wasn't going so well a couple of weeks ago we broke up (my initiative). About 10 days later I tried to go back (over the phone, she didn't want to see me) but she said that despite being really sad and not being able to imagine herself without me, she couldn't imagine herself with me either, maybe in a couple of weeks she would feel differently.... I have not contacted her since, another 10 days have passed no word from her either. Knowing that it is difficult to ask the I ching questions related to time like "how long". My question was:

"Will we meet before we become totally strangers as a couple?( before nothing of our romance is left)"

I read here the forums about these hexagrams and line and I can quite understand it, but not sure how it would apply to my particular question...

Any input would be greatly appreciated! Many thanks in advance to all.

 

[willowfox]

Yes you will meet providing you do something to mend the fence that you broke, like an apology etc.

 

[carpena]

I did apologise already when I tried to mend things... she did not seem very keen nor in a hurry to go back. Now I think (and as other reading seemed to indicate - the montain) I must respect her time and wait I suppose... if she never takes the initiative to contact me...
i don't think there is anything I can do about it.

Thanks for your help!