Hexagram 49 and Hex 37 to 49!! Relationship help

[scarlettgirl]

If anyone could help me with this dilemma I would be grateful. I am in an emotional quagmire with a man that I thought I could trust. I found out that he went out on a date with another woman, because he told me. I have written an email telling him how it makes me feel and then consulted the iching.
First question, I asked: What will happen between me and Will after I send this email to him? It gave me hex 49 changing at lines 3 and 6 to 25. Is this telling me to hold off from sending the email because of misfortune to me? On Lise's website (I hope that I have your name spelled correctly) line 3 tells me that I demand that things be set right and line 6 speaks of being content with the results. I am a little confused at how this all fits in with hexagram 25.

Second question (which should have been my first). I asked: Should I send the email to Will? I don't usually ask yes or no questions as I think it doesn't work as well that way, but I am not thinking as clearly as I should. Anyway, it gave me hexagram 37 changing at lines 4 and 6 to hex 49 again!!! I know the lines talk of the woman being the jewel of the house and it is auspicious in the end but what does it all mean changing to 49?

Please someone help me with this. Willowfox has been gracious in the past but I didn't want to overburden them with yet another question. Thanks so much in advance.

 

[willowfox]

First question, I asked: What will happen between me and Will after I send this email to him? It gave me hex 49 changing at lines 3 and 6 to 25.

This again says don't hesitate in your intentions, but word your email carefully and thoughtfully, then you can indeed expect certain beneficial changes to occur in his attitude and behaviour.

Second question (which should have been my first). I asked: Should I send the email to Will? it gave me hexagram 37 changing at lines 4 and 6 to hex 49 again!!!

Both lines are very positive, the first line is about you and the second line is that your action to send the email is the right thing to do, because it will give him something serious to think about. And hex 49 says, he will believe what you say and that is exactly what you want to achieve.
So, send it.

 

[scarlettgirl]

Thank you so much, willowfox. I was very careful when I composed that email to him, a part of me wanted to scream in anger but I'm not like that so I said what was in my heart. He hasn't responded yet but no matter what happens I already feel relieved at doing something about the situation rather than allowing this behavior to go unchecked and be a doormat.

Thanks again and I'll let you know how it turns out.