hexagram 61 and trust

[folledeschiele]

I asked, "can I trust in the strength of our love while we're apart?"

and got 61, Inner Truth, unchanging.

The thing is, I feel insecure from a distance, and it's only three weeks, but start to imagine scenarios in my head...

thank you for any comments.

 

[maremaria]

Hi,
I can’t read a yes or a no in Yi’s answer but that phrase catch my eye.
Thus the superior man discusses criminal cases In order to delay executions.Hi,
I can't read a yes or no in Yi's answers but that phrase catched my eye.

"Thus the superior man discusse criminal cases, in order to delay executions"

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The thing is, I feel insecure from a distance, and it's only three weeks, but start to imagine scenarios in my head...

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Maybe it talks about the scenarios you create in your mind and advise you to calm down.

On the other hand, looking for a yes or no in your answer, 61 regarding relationships is about special relationships, so If I were you, I wouldn’t worry a lot.

 

[em ching]

I'd agree you have nothing to worry about. I think by simply being who you both are you are so in accord that you don't need to worry - and especially don't try to manipulate but give him space with ease and trust - he will be himself no matter what but it seems that you can both see each others essence with this reading - so you'd probably know instinctively if something was wrong.

 

[strawberry_blood]

Hi,

In relation to your question I'd take the answer as "defeinitely yes, you can trust in the strength of your love while you're apart". 61 is a very spiritually positive hex as I see it, too - it's about the flow of Univeral energy, which is Love (if I remember correctly, it was Hilary who once likened the hexagram pic to a cross-section of a wire, a conduit of Divine energy ) . A very comforting answer.

All the best and get those imaginary scenarios out of your head - all THEY are doing is negatively programming the situation. Remember, if you keep imagining something happening, you draw that situation into existence, so please stay calm and happy and as soon as a worrysome scenario starts playing out in your mind, conjure up and enjoy the memories of you and your lover being happy together! Our persistent thoughts have the power to manifest in reality, so control your thoughts, esp the "3d imaginary scenarios" The more real something is when you imagine it, the stronger the manifestation potential of that thought.

Bright blessings

 

[bradford]

You can best trust someone to be who they are.
You can trust a pig to be a pig, a fish to be a fish.
If you have done your best to learn your friend's
true nature, your confidence should not be a problem.
If you only see friends as you wish them to be, expect
a few more surprises.

 

[maremaria]

yes, 61 doesn't guarantee a "...and they lived happily ever after"

 

[em ching]

Yeah I guess it does say that it isn't easy to influence / control people - people will do as they feel fit and there's no use in trying to manipulate - 'One must.. let the psyche of the other person act on one without restraint' and then the force of our own character, if expressed to true it's nature, will influence. 'Only when the bond is based on what is right.. will it triumph'.

 

[folledeschiele]

thank yout for all of your thoughtful responses...I've decided I need to get rid of knee-jerk insecurity, and if there's one "inner truth" about us, it's that we've been through a lot together and come out stronger, even after feeling disillusioned with each other at some point. Our relationship is now beyond the fantasy of romantic love-- I really do believe we've learned to love each other as independent human beings. so I'll trust in the strength of that.