Hexagram 63.3 & How to interact with a friend?

[unique cookie]

I asked the Yi:

What is my best course of interaction in dealings with him?

Yi: Hexagram 63.3

I'm a novice and therefore really baffled with this one. Any interpretations?

 

[blue_angel]

Hi,

I'm finding it hard to interpret without some background, what's happened up to now, or what is happening now. So without that the most I can say is the reading seems to say something like,

63-maintain what you have with him, work on small goals or small plans.

Line 3- be sure this is a balanced, healthy friendship, not one that's tiring, taking all your energy, and one sided.

3-could say, you need to make a breakthrough for new growth...

or it could be saying "you need to maintain the new growth by
building what is healthy and balanced." But for me to really help interpret how this fits for you, I need something to go off of.

Blue_Angel

 

[unique cookie]

Hi Blue Angel,

Thanks for replying. Things are very one sided in my honest opinion. He is going through an extreme rough patch and continually asks me to be patient with him. I am doing just fine in life in general. However, I do not feel he does things that he could to help himself nor our friendship. Sometimes I'd like to walk away but it's hard for me because I care.

 

[blue_angel]

Ok, so then to me the reading sounds like, 63- you've done all you can for him, 3-its very difficult to do much more, 63 and 3, if you have the energy and time, you can do small things for him, but line 3- you really need to do what's best to maintain your own health and balance.

 

[unique cookie]

Cyber hugs! Awesome interpretation.